Generally speaking, voyeurism is the act of watching someone during a private moment. Exhibitionism is the act of displaying something private to someone else. The key to safe and legal voyeurism and exhibitionism is consent. Without consent, both are usually breaking the law, and there is a high risk of causing someone serious emotional trauma. But with consent, there are many wonderful ways to fulfill these exciting fantasies!

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Mutual Masturbation

This is a blissful cycle for people who have both voyeur and exhibitionist desires. The visual stimulation of watching your partner play with themselves as well as their reaction to you showing all is nothing less than the best of both worlds.

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One of my favorite areas of Sheri’s Playland is the “Naughty Secretary” room. There is a separate office for the boss, complete with venetian blinds looking out onto the secretary’s desk. Naughty secretaries like to make things interesting by playing with themselves at work. What she doesn’t know is that a secret spy-cam has been installed under the desk that streams live video right to boss’s computer!
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Cuckoldry for Couples

Many people find it highly erotic to watch their partner have sex with someone else. The most common form is a man watching his bi-curious wife with another woman. But the flip-side is also fairly common, when the wife watches her husband with another woman.

Strength in the relationship is required. There is something emotionally bonding and exhilarating about watching the love of your life sexually stimulate and pleasure another partner, knowing that ultimately they choose you.

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Sex Video and Pictures

Have you ever wanted your own secret sex tape? Do you love real amateur photos of the dirty deed? Do you want to make a memory you can relive over and over again? Bring out the camera!

Of course, remember consent and ask beforehand as many ladies aren’t comfortable with being filmed.

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BDSM

The ways in which voyeurism and exhibitionism crop up in BDSM contexts are numerous and will be dealt with in a forthcoming post. Sexual objectification and erotic humiliation are examples. Piss play and scat are non-sexual examples.

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Sex In Public

Althoughany kind of sexual activity outside is against the rules, I’m sure Sheri’s could figure out a way to make a full-on outdoor public sex exhibition fantasy come true. It’s so taboo and so against the rules… and so… intriguing for all those reasons! Okay, maybe this is just my own personal fantasy…

Voyeurism and exhibitionism doesn’t have to be a creepy no-go area of exploration. Done in the right way, it can be an exciting, stimulating, intense, and deeply connecting experience.

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Some photos courtesy of Wikimedia Commons.

 

About Phoenix Daniels

Phoenix has worked in the sex industry for 15 years and has been actively involved in the BDSM community for 8 years. Her hobbies include travel, painting, computer programming, yoga, and reading.
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4 Responses to How To Get Off As A Voyeur

  1. Dena says:

    M y favorite is the Sex in Public. I’m sure that we could make that happen for some of your more adventurous clients..

  2. Guest says:

    I love when the woman I’m with likes to watch the “ins and outs” of what we’re doing. Sensual moments tend to close ones eyes, but it can be so much more if you both keep them open.

  3. Pierced says:

    I love when the woman I’m with likes to watch the “ins and outs” of what we’re doing. Sensual moments tend to close ones eyes, but it can be so much more if you both keep them open.

  4. Allissa says:

    I love to watch guys masturbate!

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