Welcome to the boards as well Spades! I too lost my virginity last December at the age of 30 (still am 30) and was very happy to have given up my V card. I took a different approach and instead ended up interacting with several ladies by email and ended up setting up an appointment with a wonderful lady. If you haven’t seen the blogs below, these contain very useful information. I’m sure you will have a great time as I did.