If you are both visiting a brothel and losing your virginity for the first time, you are going to be nervous, no doubt about it. You will be shaking from head to toe. I think the best thing to do to minimize the adrenaline running through your body will be to simply go with it and remember that many others have felt the same way you will.
An environment like this gives you the opportunity other settings in life does not. In regular societal activities – such as a date, an interview, or a presentation – exhibiting anxiety is a sign of weakness and may be detrimental to your efforts. Here, you have the welcoming option to admit to the staff and ladies that it is your first time in both regards without shame and admit that you are extremely nervous. I think that admitting the fact greatly reduces the pressure we have to hid our anxieties. Once it’s out in the open, you can take a deep breath and move on. Still nervous? That’s okay. Nobody is there to judge you, but instead to ensure that you are comfortable and have a good time.