Being a Newbie trying to get my courage up and being over 60 with a few medical problems I am just so hesitant to go to the Ranch as I could not take a long drive to be a failure or a joke. I have not been with a women in many years. Trying to get a feel for different girls that I could feel a connection with. So far no luck and discouraged. Still trying though. I know the girls are busy and understand.