If you contacted a specific girl, she can only answer when she is at the Ranch working. Then I have been told they sometimes have limited access to e-mail to answer. I am a newbie and have been told this by other helpful people on the forums. I have also been told that it may be a good idea to e-mail more than one lady so you can see if you connect better with one. I have found through my very limited time here that all the girls have been great and nice. I to will be going for my first time and trust me, Sheri’s is the only place I will consider. Good luck and have fun. Hope this helps.