I really want to thank all of you for the responses again, this is starting to calm a few of my fears, and making me look forward to my time there (although I hope my eyes aren’t bigger than my wallet).
Based on the overall advice I’ve been receiving I will try to e-mail a couple of the ladies that caught my eye. Since I don’t have twitter I’ll have to take my chances with their e-mails on the site. If i don’t make a connection I’ll take my chances at the bar.
Another question, how far out should I make the appointment if I find any connection?
Thanks again everyone.