There’s nothing pathetic about it at all. From my visit earlier in the month, I gained more confidence in my abilities, fewer critical image anxieties, bedroom tips from an expert, and a huge boost in mood. I don’t see it as the only way to get laid. I view it more as a “why not?” Funds will be replenished, the ladies are tested, and it’s legal. No downsides. Brothels allow us to take away the stressful aspects of sex & courting and just let us have fun (and judging from the ladies’ responses, it’s not just the clients who have fun).