Sheri’s is not a high pressure environment. You can set in the bar and be left alone, if you really wanted to. if you tell the hostess you want to meet the ladies, you have 10 minutes per lady to decide if you want to party with them. I would recoomend if you know when you will be there, email or Tweet ladies that appeal to you. Mention how shy you are, what things you want done in your party and a proposed budget.