What Ruby said. Many of us cater to non-sex parties. Connection, chemistry, and closeness are not only things that feel good but have emotional and physical benefits. I believe as humans we need a connection with one another, we all crave it in one sense or another. Sex is definitely not the only way to achieve this closeness. I recommend messaging whichever lady you are interested in seeing and letting her know what you would like to do together and see if that is something she caters to.