If a man does not feel valued, appreciated, etc. in a relationship or marriage with a woman, most likely he is either going to cheat or divorce her.
Fortunately, I am not with some woman who is uptight and egotistical. If she knew that I was interested in going to Sheri’s Ranch to meet women for intimacy/sex, she would break up or try to stop me from going.
All I have to say to you, Pierre, is that you have a right to choose what, where, and who you want to be in a relationship. If your girlfriend cannot accept that, then you might as well break up and move on with someone else. Then, she can find another man who is just like her.