Thanks everyone for replying. My guess is that someday, female condoms will just be seen as mainstream as far as their use. In the meantime, there is apprehension about using them I think largely because of unfamiliarity. There is a lot of good information out there like the links that Charina provided. From most of what I’ve read, they are very safe and fun! But again, I do respect the rights of those who feel uncomfortable with using them. If you don’t feel comfortable with them then you are not going to enjoy the experience, right?
So, I will take the advice from this thread and just ask when I am there. I’m sure I will find someone. Thanks again. Hope to see some of you in May.