You can use you cell phone in your hotel, and you can have it on you they just don’t want you to have it out in the bar. You don’t have to silent your cell phone , if it rings you are welcome to step outside to answer your call. You can also feel free to ask your girl if she minds you using your phone while in your party if you wish, most of us are pretty understanding. All electronic devices that have the availability to record video or audio fall under the same rules.
Lol no, you won’t be frisked but if you have a bag and are checking into the hotel security may check your bag for any contraband.