Generally: Sheri’s is extremely classy, comfortable, clean, and safe. All of the ladies and other Sheri’s staff members are extremely nice.
Hotel: I would highly recommend calling and booking Sheri’s hotel for your stay. That will make your whole stay easier and more fun. You won’t have to worry about driving back to Vegas, etc. After my first party there (in June 2014), I just wanted to relax and sleep. If I had booked a hotel room there at Sheri’s, I could have.
Booking: As far as how to book a lady, that’s really a personal decision. I’ve done it both ways, and I prefer to make an appointment, but I also have a particular lady that I like to see. For starters, I would recommend looking at the Sheri’s schedule and then viewing the profiles of the ladies who will be there when you’re considering going.
About me and my wife: My wife and I are going together in January, and it will be her first visit. I’m a guy, and I’ve been to Sheri’s five times (once in June 2014 and four times in July 2014). My wife is aware of, and approves of, my solo visits.
Generally, I can say that, in my opinion, you’re making the best decision about visiting Sheri’s for your first threesome. Your history is similar to ours. We started visiting strip clubs in 2007, and we had our first (and, as of now) our only threesome in 2013. She has been attracted to women for years.
My wife and I chose to meet up with a “hot wife” swinger for our first threesome, and it was a bad experience for me. As soon as we got to the hotel room, the swinger looks at me and says: “I am not here for you. I am not interested in you,” or something very similar. I ended up being very bored and didn’t have much fun.
Back to Sheri’s: I partied with Emma in June and Allissa in July (all four of my parties in July were with Allissa). I shared my threesome story with both ladies, and they both said similar things in response: someone in a threesome has to take charge and make sure that everyone is comfortable and they everyone is having fun. I have no doubt that all of the ladies who party with couples will ensure that you have a great time.
Also, all of the ladies at Sheri’s get regular health screenings, so it’s safe to party there. Just as a precaution, I got tested before my visits just to make sure that I was clean and healthy (I am).
Have fun and be sure to post an update after you and your husband party!
P.S. My wife and I are in our 30s, too.