Trying to find that right person(s) to connect with can be difficult. Remember that the lades are professionals. They will understand if the connection isn’t there. My suggestion for you is that you NOT put pressure on yourself. If you don’t make any promises to the ladies you are in communication with then you wont hurt their feelings if you don’t party with them. When you get here just relax. When the hostess greets you explain to her what you would like to happen. ex.. you have a list of ladies that you have been emailing and would like to speak to them. She is here to help you. Remember that communication is key with the hostess, as well as with the ladies that you connect with, to make your experience as relaxing and enjoyable as possible.
I hope this helps you.