I’m a newcomer here… so i hope Miss Allissa is still in the habit of checking replies.
As far as a new toy is concerned; it would help if we knew what you already had.
I’ve found ladies enjoy those inflatable ones with the little hand-pump (models for both access points available). I’ve also got a wicked nipple fetish; so any woman willing to try some clips (not clamps) or those tiny suction cups always gets bonus points.
have you considered setting up an amazon wish list so adoring gentlemen* may send you tokens of their esteem?
*or jusy any guy who loves getting beautiful women naughty gifts