Clitoral and G-Spot Cunnilingus Oral Sex Refresher
Cunnilingus Oral Sex is a very gratifying lovemaking technique that enables women to experience intense orgasms and many women prefer it over intercourse. Cunnilingus oral sex is the language of love for pleasuring a woman to sexual climax. A large majority of women can only achieve fantastic orgasms through oral sex stimulation of the female genitalia… that is the vulva, clitoris and vagina!
Some men prefer a waxed or shaved female pubic area; in contrast, others like a short hair nicely groomed pussy. The benefits of the latter enable her lover to perform cunnilingus and floss their teeth simultaneously, LOL! Confucius say, “Show me a man who doesn’t pleasure his woman through oral sex, and I’ll show you a man’s woman I can steal.”
Cunnilingus Oral Sex Synopsis
Cunnilingus Oral Sex is often ignored by a man as a lovemaking technique for pleasuring a woman. Unfortunately some men are only concerned about achieving an orgasm, and are under the misconception that a woman will routinely climax through intercourse alone without any foreplay or oral sex as quickly as a man; however, intercourse can be pleasurable to a woman if her clitoris and G-Spot, urethral sponge, are stimulated properly. There is nothing more exciting to a woman than to know that her partner finds her delicious; meaning that her vaginal love juice (sugar-water) is pleasurable to a man’s senses. It’s recommended to share a hot bubble bath prior to sex or oral sex, since it cleanses, deodorizes, sensitizes and arouses the lovers’ bodies and stimulates one another!
Cunnilingus Oral Sex is defined as…
1. The fine art of making love to a woman’s vagina, vulva and clitoris with her lover’s mouth and tongue. Cunnilingus oral sex must never be rushed, since she can’t achieve orgasms any faster than her body and passion will permit.
2. The act of using the mouth to stimulate the female genitalia. This can include sucking or licking the outer and inner areas of the vagina, and most often involves direct stimulation of the clitoris.
3. The act of slowly maneuvering a lover’s tongue into a woman’s vagina (while she’s lying on her back) approximately one to three inches on the front anterior wall to find her G-Spot (Urethral Sponge). The act of licking and stroking the tongue over this engorged, wrinkled or ribbed area that resembles pronounced bumps creates a sensation that is incredibly delightful. This lovemaking technique usually results in a squirting climax and full body orgasm.
Some women find cunnilingus to be the most satisfying sexual act. Indeed, a great number of women report that oral sex is the only way they can achieve orgasms. The mouth can create a uniquely intense range of sensations which many women find unrivaled. If a lover performs oral sex to a woman’s pleasure she will adore them forever.
Cunnilingus can be performed by another woman too, lesbian oral sex, and probably better than most men. A woman knows exactly what she likes, so it’s easier for her to pleasure another woman through oral sex; however, a man can learn especially if he’s willing to allow his woman to teach him. If a man truly loves a woman, he would do anything to satisfy her sexual desires.
Note: Proper STD protection should be employed for both cunnilingus and fellatio oral sex through utilization of dental dams and condoms.
Cunnilingus Oral Sex 101 – This is a lover’s oral sex course and you will receive your passing grade from your woman:
Cunnilingus is the fine art of sexually pleasing a woman with your tongue. Beyond that there’s a lot of room for interpretation. There’s no single “right way” to give oral sex to a woman. It requires patience and must not be rushed, since a woman usually takes longer to achieve orgasms. I repeat it’s important to remember that oral sex is not a race to see how fast you can achieve your goal… take your time and savor the experience! It’s nice to begin with a Jacuzzi bubble bath, since it’s very relaxing and renders the body more sensitive. Also, some women feel aroused after a soothing bath as it adds to the foreplay.
Before beginning oral sex ask her what she likes and let her know you are open to and very appreciative of directions such as “harder,” “faster,” “slower,” “deeper,” “right there” and so on. You can even pre arrange a signal that you’ve hit the spot such as tapping you with a hand, moaning, or screaming, “Yes, yes, oh yes!”
While the eventual focus of cunnilingus is the woman’s genitals, it’s important to build up to it, to ease into oral sex. Direct contact with the genitals before a woman is well aroused may turn her off or even be uncomfortable, especially direct contact with her clitoris prior to arousal. Kiss and caress her mouth, face, neck, ears, breasts, belly, back and thighs first. Nibble, nuzzle, and carefully nip. Blowing on freshly licked, kissed, or nipped skin can be just lovely, too.
Start slowly and pay attention to the entire woman and once she’s aroused, her entire genital region and not just her clitoris will crave stimulation. Again, tease and create a build-up. Kiss and lick her labia and work your way to the clitoris. To avoid uncomfortable friction always make sure that whatever contacts her clitoris is well moistened, whether it is a tongue, a finger, a vibrator, or your nose.
When you reach the clitoris, flatten and soften your tongue as if you were licking an ice cream cone. A pointed, stiff tongue can sometimes be too hard on a sensitive clitoris as well as being too difficult to maintain if you happen to find the right rhythm with it. My advice is to save your stiff flicking tongue for her labia and the rim of her vagina.
Whether you lick top to bottom, around, or side to side, start licking slowly and steadily building the pace. Speed is not always a plus; most women prefer a precise rhythm, steady and consistent, regardless of the speed. In general, women don’t come as fast as men do so endurance rather than velocity is key. Please be patient and take your time. If you are going to want to hurry things up, you should wait until you have more time or until you are in a different mood before you have oral sex.
Here’s where we’ll look at licking, kissing, and sucking techniques. Remember, these are things to try, the things women like and don’t like are as different and specific as women can be. If something doesn’t get a positive response, move on and try something new.
A basic technique is to simply lick the clitoris either from side to side or from bottom to top repeatedly with a flat, soft tongue. Try different pressures and rhythms.
Relax your mouth and press it open against her clitoral area. Lap at the clitoris and suck at it softly while it is inside your mouth. As a variation, you can suck her clitoris into your mouth and delicately lick it while maintaining the suction. Give her a tiny blowjob while delicately pulling her clitoral hood back with your thumbs on either side.
Hold your tongue flat against her clitoris, pressing firmly with it and gently move your whole head up and down or from side to side, creating a rocking effect. This may allow you to apply deeper but still gentle pressure to her clitoris.
Purse your lips as if you were saying, “ooh” and cover her clitoris with them. Then gently and slowly swirl your tongue around her clitoris inside your mouth. Move your tongue in one continuous motion, either clockwise or counter clockwise.
Do not, and I repeat DO NOT EVER BITE OR EVEN NIP HER CLITORIS without first asking your partner. It can be extremely painful for her and potentially dangerous to your health, since you may feel an immediate and intense pain in your testicles!
Some women will be greatly aroused if you moan, groan, or growl while going down on them. It’s both physically (the vibrations of the sound) and psychologically arousing. It lets your partner know you are really turned on by giving her head.
Don’t forget that you have arms and hands while giving head. Use them to caress her body, her breasts, but gentleness is the key. Massage lightly and don’t squeeze too firmly. Use them to finger her and provide additional stimulation. Use them to hold her as she orgasms!
This may be the most important tip, right here – do not stop until she indicates. Unlike most men, many women not only enjoy continued stimulation during orgasm, but NEED it to continue coming. With continued stimulation some women experience cascades of orgasm that can last several minutes. If a woman begins moaning, breathing heavier, bucking or pressing your face into her pussy or saying, “don’t stop,” it doesn’t mean it’s time to switch things up, it means you should keep doing exactly what you are doing at the same speed you are doing it as long as you can keep it up.
Communicate with each other, before, during, and after sex. This is always the best way to fine-tune your mutual sexual enjoyment.
G-Spot (Urethral Sponge) Oral Stimulation
Oftentimes a woman likes G-Spot stimulation more than clitoral. The G-Spot (Urethral Sponge) is located approximately 2.5 cm to 7.6 cm (1.0 in to 3.0 in) inside a woman’s vagina on the front (anterior) wall. You’re attempting to feel with the middle finder or tongue a wrinkled or ridged area that will become more pronounced as she gets more and more aroused. The G-Spot can be massaged with one finger or tongue inserted gently into her vagina, but copious amounts of lubricant must be used with a finger massage. Grape seed oil or good quality sexual lubricants are necessary. The G-Spot may be massaged with a lover’s tongue allowing much greater sensitivity than lover’s middle finger, and the results will be breathtaking. This lovemaking technique often results in a woman experiencing a squirting climax and full body orgasm. The tongue isn’t nearly as rigid so it’s less likely to irritate her G-Spot and clitoris. Warning: When her dam breaks and she squirts you may experience a near drowning sensation; however, all of her delectably sweet juices must be swallowed with nothing wasted… it will make you strong!
Confucius say, “Show me a man who doesn’t pleasure his woman through oral sex, and I’ll show you a man’s woman I can steal.”
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FYI… Be careful and do not blow hard into the vagina when performing cunnilingus oral sex.
Caution: Never blow hard into a woman’s vagina, under any circumstances, as though trying to fill it with air, since it’s seriously dangerous and possibly fatal in rare instances. Blowing hard into a woman’s vagina may cause an embolism and lead to serious injury or death. Breathe on her; blow lightly on her; never blow forcefully into her, since it’s usually not pleasurable anyway. Please don’t inadvertently confuse a real woman with a blow-up doll companion, since both do not respond positively to 40 PSI air pressure blown into their vaginas.
Is blowing air into the vagina dangerous? “Is it okay for my lover to blow air into my vagina?”
Actually, this is one strange rumor that is not ALL hot air. Ladies, if your lover forms a seal around your vagina with their lips and forces air inside without allowing it to escape, bubbles can form, which travel through the opening in the cervix up into the uterus, where they may be absorbed into the bloodstream. If at any point the air bubbles block a blood vessel ~ especially one that leads to the brain or heart ~ it could in rare case cause a stroke, heart attack or even death.
However, the chances of that happening are pretty slim. For one thing, blowing air into the vagina is dangerous only when your below-the-belt blood vessels are engorged due to hormonal changes that occur during menstruation or pregnancy. Plus, your lover would have to be puffing extremely hard to put you at risk.
If you like blowing air into your girlfriend’s vulva, and if your girlfriend enjoys the sensations brought on by this, it may give you two some peace of mind to know that gently puffing some air into or breathing on a woman’s vulva during oral pleasuring appears to be okay. However, it might be better to suck, kiss, lick, probe, and press (with lips or fingers), or lightly nibble a woman’s vulva or clitoris than blow or force air directly into her vagina. Safer and enjoyable oral sex on a woman mostly involves using a dam, finding out what feels good to her, and practice.
So, if gentle blowing on your genital area feels good, you’ve got nothing to worry about. But if you are at all concerned, ask your lover to stick to other titillating techniques. As Bob Dylan sang, “the answer, my friend, is not blowing in the women” or something like that anyway.