Wow Firefighter, you really explained this better than anyone could I believe. Although there are limitations, I think your one point is outstanding….It comes down to meeting and talking with someone you feel a nice connection with…Taking your time and getting to know some things about each other. Safety will always come first, but when you come down to it, it isn’t certain “acts” that make it a GFE (girlfriend experience), it’s a connection, an attitude, a feeling…The word “friend” is in there for a reason. Many of us do indeed become long term friends with certain people. I’m sure everyone can relate to feeling and sensing a true connection with someone almost instantly. Is it emotion, is it sheer desire? Sometimes….But sometimes it’s just a wonderful connection between two good people!!!!!
Take care all!