You’re so funny! I love a sense of humor. I guess what I’m saying is that I TRULY enjoy what I do and my sexuality and if you are nice and have a sense of humor, it’s just a big PLUS for me!!!!! There’s all kinds of degrees of orgasms. Some are small, and in between…and some are mind blowing….But some of us just plain reach that easier than others because I’m a big believer that the mind controls the body!!!!