Great trend! Probably within the last year or two I’ve learned that it is quite common for women to masturbate, as well. Learning that has made me feel so much better about myself when I do it. Also, I think its good advice to Newdude (and to other men) of finding different ways to explore ourselves. One thing I’ve decided to try is to ditch the porn and just lay on my bed with only my imagination to entice me. I’m also practicing running my hands all along my body before and after I climax (because it makes since that a climax should have something after it) to find out what else feels good.