I truly believe there is pressure on visitors to not “disappoint” one of us. I think though, the pressure comes from within, and not the girls. You not wanting to disappoint one of the girls shows your kindness. But you need to remember that your trip here IS about YOU! It’s our responsibility to be professional and courteous and respect your decision and choices. If you have a great time here (which you most likely will) then that’s good for ALL the ladies because there’s a greater chance you are going to come back!!!! Or tell others!!!! It’s all to our benefit in the long run! Hugs, Charina!