March 19, 2016 at 5:26 pm #17727
Every Girl’s definition of GFE or PSE seems to be different and I think that all ladies should clarify what her definition is, so that potential clients know what her boundaries are. I personally take pride in my safety and my health. It was one of the reasons I decided to start working here at Sheri’s after working for a few years as an independent escort. I love the fact that we get tested once per week, I have peace of mind that I am safe as well as my customers having peace of mind, that I am safe & clean.
There are so many girls that are willing to participate in more risky behaviors, inside and outside of brothels, for a little bit of extra money. In my opinion no amount of money is worth risking my health even if I only get something that’s curable with pills. What if what I got was something like Herpes, that I could never get rid of? I often hear guys and girls make excuses like “its not as much of as risk as having unprotected intercourse….” but the fact is that it is still a risk, that I am not willing to take. Kissing, an uncovered blowjob, coming in the girl’s mouth, coming on a girls face, Coming on the girls breast/other body parts is often included in some girls GFE/PSE and as little as the risk may seem, you can still contract many STDs that way (it is an exchange of fluid). Here at a brothel it is illegal to “exchange fluid” so it make it so much easier to tell someone “No, we don’t offer that here”… but in the Escort world there are pretty much no rules, its all based on what that girl is willing to let you do. No judgment passed if that is something you do, every girl has to do what she feels comfortable doing. I mean Porn Stars do almost any and everything, so to each their own. As long as you are aware and comfortable with the risk you are taking. I’m simply stating how I feel about this topic.
For me GFE is more of a Sensual experience, instead of a high energy experience. Its about taking our time, and enjoying every minute of each other’s company. This could be having a few drinks to get warmed up and chat or having dinner together before we make our way to the bedroom to have sex, or “Netflix & Chill” where we watch a movie, cuddle, then end it off with steamy sensual sex. Activities during sex could include mutual massage, cuddling, going down on me with a dental damn, kissing my neck or breast.
My PSE experience on the other hand is my high energy, let’s get down and Dirty Experience. Just because it’s a “Porn Star Experience” , does not mean I will have sex with out a condom, or let you come anywhere on my body. This just means I will act how a porn actress in a movie would act, by making loud sexual noises, dirty talking, and Roll Play Scenarios. “Fuck Me”, “I love your big cock inside me” Dressing up in sluttly lingerie/ costumes, doing a toy show where I let you watch me masturbate before fucking me, deep throat BJ (with a condom of course). I will take requests of things a guy saw a porno WITH IN REASON! As long as it will not risk my health. (I also do not provide anal)
What is your definition of GFE vs PSE??
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IG: @lacy_loves_uMarch 19, 2016 at 5:47 pm #17731
Well put Lacy!!! I love this post. According to health regulations there should be no body fluid exchange, but to each their own.
My GFE is a date night where we spend multiple hours together in companionship. Dinner, multiple orgasms and bubble baths or jacuzzi, ect…. Safety first at all times, but still extremely sensual.
Attachments:March 19, 2016 at 6:33 pm #17734
Thanks for letting us know your approach Lacy….immediately brings to mind a classic movie scene which is exactly like your boudoir:
THE NAKED GUN: FROM THE FILES OF POLICE SQUAD (1988), when Priscilla Presley says, all breathy and bedroom-voiced, “I want you to know, I practice safe sex,” and Leslie Nielsen responds, all studly-voiced and meaningful eye contact, “So do I.” White sheer curtains blow in a gentle breeze in the softly lit room… cut to the couple, each clad in a full body condom.
Attachments:March 20, 2016 at 4:13 am #17739
thanks, Lacy, for the expansive explanation.March 20, 2016 at 11:24 am #17745
Great post Lacy! I totally agree, you can’t spend money dead, its never worth playing Russian roulette, and it violates health code laws to do so. GFE/PSE shouldn’t have anything to do with fluid exchange but the experience.March 21, 2016 at 11:18 am #17760
Skeeting on bewbz is safeMarch 21, 2016 at 1:36 pm #17769
Um, Roswell actually its not, look up HPV….March 21, 2016 at 2:57 pm #17778
Rats!March 22, 2016 at 2:12 pm #17789
Lol you tried, you tried!March 22, 2016 at 2:19 pm #17793
when did PSE involve lots of vocalization?March 25, 2016 at 11:41 am #17838
Well hun in most porns you watch there’s a lot on moaning and dirty talk.March 25, 2016 at 2:21 pm #17856
True but did it start out that way? most amateur films I viewed are quite quiet.March 26, 2016 at 11:33 am #17867
Key word there being “amateur” hun. I’m not sure how it began, I wasn’t alive when porn was first being created, when most people think of the PSE or of porn they imagine a high energy party with lots of “on my god, yes” “give it to me” kinda talk.April 5, 2016 at 9:56 am #18065
I think the whole “PSE” thing is nonsense. Everyone knows what goes on in porn is risky and can’t be replicated at the brothel…so…why bother to offer it and get potential customers confused or put their expectations in a place that isn’t worth it? I think a new name should be invented to take the place of the “Porn Star Experience.” Maybe since we have “Girl Friend Experience” we should use “Bad Girl Experience” for the other. At least that way it’s not offering an example (porn) that by it’s very nature isn’t possible. That could help alleviate some of the confusion.
DexApril 9, 2016 at 7:23 am #18170
I love seeing all the definitions and ideas for what GFE means. I was curious, is your GFE experience the same with a ‘first timer’ and then it changes each subsequent time or does it vary? Obviously this is aimed at the ladies.April 13, 2016 at 12:24 pm #18220
For me I think that its kind of a given that it will change. The first session we don’t know a thing about each other so as our meetings continue and we learn more about each other then we get closer and the sessions become far more personalized.
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