There seems to be this myth that sex toys are only to be used when you’re alone, when you can’t have sex with your partner. Or worse, that they are for women only! Of course sex toys are all the rage for women – they have bullet vibrators, magic wands, rabbits, dildos, clitoral vibrators, magical toys all of them. They come in rubber, they come in glass, and they come in silicon. When you walk into an adult toy store you will see racks of lingerie and shelves upon shelves of toys all aimed at helping the intrepid sexual explorer discover the art of the female orgasm. And there tucked away in a corner in the back you may find a single shelf, maybe two, of toys for men.

Times are certainly changing though, that section is growing by leaps and bounds every year. At first one started seeing “couples” toys, then a few pocket pussies. Then fleshlight came on the market and absolutely exploded, no pun intended. Now you can walk in and find almost as many varieties (though maybe not as many brands yet!) of male sex toys as you can find for women.

The expectation that men should just have to do it alone with only his hand as pleasure is slowly dying, replaced by a sexual revolution of exploration for all the sexes. Let’s see what’s on the market for the adventurous gentleman, and how those toys can be enjoyed both solo and in a party with the ladies of Sheri’s Ranch.

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#1: Cock Rings

You can find these in single use disposable rubber, or in leather, or in steel. Some even vibrate, but more on that later! Cock rings work to keep the blood flow to your cock trapped, giving you a raging erection that doesn’t quit. If you want to get hard at the drop of a hat and stay that way, this little power house toy is your answer.

The cock ring not only makes you harder for longer, it can also greatly heighten your orgasm by making the entire penis more sensitive.

You can use one by yourself to have a marathon self-love session, or ask your favorite Sheri’s courtesan about using one during your next visit to have longer and more intense orgasms together.

#2: Pocket Pussies

These fun toys are one the latest big trends in male sex toys. Sometimes called “male masturbators,” the fleshlight is certainly the most popular version of the pocket pussy, but there are many to choose from.

Some have a few more bells and whistles like “Max” from Lovense or the Autoblow. Both create a suction like feeling to really drive you over the edge. Others, like the Tenga Egg, are simple but powerful, relying on the silky smooth flesh like feel coupled with a texture to help fully stimulate your senses.

Some people mistakenly believe that these kinds of toys are only for guys that don’t have the “real thing” but that is simply not true. Although you can definitely use it between love sessions, just think of the multitasking ability that such a toys gives with your lover.

Your favorite lady at Sheri’s ranch could be enjoying herself at your face (another popular party at the ranch) while using just such a toy on your cock.

#3 “P-Spot” Stimulators

Ahhh the P-Spot, the male counterpart to the Lady’s G-Spot. The “P” in P-Spot stands for prostate, and it is located a couple of inches inside a man’s rear. Some men very wrongly believe that this is not the kind of play a straight man should enjoy. But the men that have had their P-Spot stimulated disagree!

There are many men that can orgasm from prostate stimulation alone. So naturally the toy market made sure there were plenty of toys available to help, there are plug sized toys made of silicon, toys with bulges to help arouse the incredibly erogenous anus, as well as silky smooth and straight rods to really hone in on that P-Spot.

And it’s easy to see how these toys can be used both solo and with a partner to really enhance a sex party. Your partner can help you stimulate that oh so sensitive spot while also giving you oral pleasure, or even coupling this toy with another on the list.

P Spot stimulator

#4 Vibrators for Men

This is one of the least common toys on the market today, but one I find to be the most fun. Lucky for the men of today, women’s toys are often very adaptable to be used with men.

If you think about it, a woman’s clitoris and a man’s penis are very similar. They both fill with blood and grow (although to very different sizes) when aroused. And for most people a gentle to strong vibration on that sensitive area can feel incredible.

Men even have an additional pleasure zone that can feel amazing with added vibrations, the balls. If you are a man that enjoys having your balls played with then ask your courtesan about adding a vibrator, especially one with multiple speed settings.

Reverse cowgirl can be the perfect position for this kind of fun, giving your favorite Sheri’s Lady easy access with the toy of your choice.

P-Spot Simulator Photo By stnu (Rude Boy – P Spot stimulator) [CC BY-SA 2.0 (http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-sa/2.0)], via Wikimedia Commons

About AlexEmpire

The girl next door with a naughty little secret, Alex Empire is a legal courtesan at Sheri's Ranch and a professional adult video performer. My Sheri's Ranch Profile
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2 Responses to Sex Toys: Not Just For Women

  1. TheCatTribe says:

    Thank you for the advice, Alex. Going to try out Max and the Autoblow. I am certain, however, that nothing can come close to the devastatingly divine experience of a party with the outstanding, gorgeous courtesans of Sheri’s Ranch.

  2. PamelaXXX says:

    I like to use sex toys for sex. But my boyfriend against. When I asked him why he was against it, he replied that it degrades, it says that if I want to use sex toys then it does not satisfy me properly. But I only want variety in sex.

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