The threesome is one of the most popular male fantasies and is often revealed to be the #1 sexual fantasy in many online surveys. msn reports that 63% of men would like to try a threesome but only 14% have actually indulged their desire to participate in a Ménage à trois.

For the purpose of this post, a threesome shall be broadly defined as a two girl sex party in which a gentleman has a sexual experience with two women at the same time.

Threesomes fall into two primary categories:

1. A threesome in which a male/female couple in a long-term relationship asks another woman to join them for sex.

2. A threesome in which a man has sex with two women, neither of which are in a long term relationship with the man.

The first type of threesome will be covered in a forthcoming post, as the topic involves serious considerations that the couple must explore so that the experience doesn’t weaken their relationship, but strengthens it. It’s the threesome of the second sort, the Charlie Sheen style romp-fest, which is the focus of this article.

In order to have a stellar threesome that is worth the effort of wrangling two gorgeous vixens to satisfy a guy’s multiple-partner curiosities, he must first understand the why, who, and where of his specific threesome aspirations.

Why do you want to have a threesome?

If you’re reading this article, you’re likely one of the 63% of men looking to satiate a craving for two women simultaneously. But have you asked yourself why you have such a craving? There are many reasons why men have a threesome fantasy, but understanding why you specifically desire the experience will help you enjoy your two girl party that much more. Here are a few examples why some men have added a threesome to their bucket list:

  • 2 girl and 1 guy threesomeBragging rights. Many guys measure themselves against their peers. The respect and admiration men bestow on their threesome-savvy brethren is substantial. There is nothing that strokes the ego quite like the accolades that follow a man’s tale of bedding multiple women as he and his cohorts enjoy a brew at the local watering hole. In the minds of many men, crossing the threesome threshold is of equal importance to losing one’s virginity. To be a man, one must know woman; to be a man among men, one must know many women.
  • Confidence. The first step in achieving success is believing that you’re worthy of it. Many men seeking leadership positions in today’s society pursue situations that build confidence and fortify self esteem. There are very few confidence-boosters that compare to a two girl sex party. Some professional men carry the memories of their threesomes around like a locked-and-loaded sidearm, always ready when they need to summon the bravery and boldness that sets leaders apart from “lesser men”.
  • Girl-on-girl action. Most men are aroused by the sight of two women getting it on. At the risk of stating the obvious, lesbian activity between the two female participants is a strong component of threesome sex. A threesome is a front row seat for the best girl-on-girl porn film you will ever see – and you can reach out and touch whenever you want…
  • Boredom. Some men are just bored with their current sexual situation. The same woman in the same positions month after month, year after year. Yes, let’s face it, even sex gets boring. Thankfully, the ultimate cure for boredom is four legs, two mouths, twenty fingers, numerous orifices, and more positions than a guy can shake his stick at.

 Who do you want to have a threesome with?

Once you understand why you want to have a threesome, the next step is choosing your partners. This is one of the best parts of the threesome experience because you can explore possibilities that a single sex partner could never offer. Do you want an older woman and a younger woman for that mother/daughter fantasy that you just can’t get out of your head? A “Neapolitan” multi racial sex sandwich? A dominant and submissive so that you can have the best of both sides of BDSM? The possibilities are spectacular.

Additionally, it’s key that you choose partners who compliment your particular fantasy. For example, if you’re looking to build confidence through fantasy role play you might want to choose women who delight in playing the subservient concubines to your libidinous emperor. If you’re looking for a heavy dose of down and dirty lesbian action, it might be a good idea to involve women who are legitimately bisexual.

When choosing your companions, the one concept to keep in mind is compatibility. It’s important to spend some time together before the sexual activity begins so that you can test the chemistry between you and your partners and be assured that each party member is willing and ready to explore the fantasy. As long as the three participants are comfortable with each other at a basic level of sensuality, it’s unlikely that anything can be less than absolutely fantastic once the deeper levels of intimacy are reached.

Where do you want to have your threesome?

3 girl threesomeYour place or hers? or hers?

Ideally, a threesome will take place in a neutral location where all participants are on equal ground. Whether it be an exotic hotel or private beach or seedy parking lot, any locale that fits the nature of the fantasy should be sufficient – if you are among the 14% of men lucky enough to have the opportunity to live out your two girl fantasy.

But what if you’re one of the 86% of men who have not yet had a threesome despite your overwhelming desire to do so? Where do you go?

In today’s challenging social environment no one is expected to “sit and wait” for the intimate encounters they dream of. There are legal bordellos and sex resorts that cater to a wide variety of sexual fantasies, threesomes being one of them.

The Resort and Spa at Sheri’s Ranch is the premier legal brothel in the state of Nevada and it is one of the few places in the United States where visitors can experience the full range of threesome fantasies. Sheri’s Ranch has a wide selection of sex partners to choose from, offers a suite of bungalows designed for immersive fantasy sex role play, and is 100% safe and discrete so that your experience is as private as you want it to be.

The threesome is no longer a sex act reserved for rock stars and Kennedys. We have finally reached an age where the two girl sex party is on the table for any man who yearns for unmatched carnal pleasure…and the world’s best ego boost.

 

About Jeremy Lemur

A driven professional with considerable experience in both the traditional and adult space, Jeremy has worked for a national sports league, a prestigious entertainment guild, and several successful start ups. Jeremy thoroughly enjoys the challenges associated with a highly politicized countercultural environment such as Nevada's unique adult entertainment scene. Email him at jeremy.lemur (at) sherisranch.com
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  • liam51

    sex for me has never been about competition, or "bragging rights". Not to diss something others find desirable, but I prefer to focus entirely on my (one) partner, for our mutual pleasure. I think I would be just too distracted by having multiple partners. Old Cherokee saying, "man who chases two rabbits, gets no rabbit".

  • Lenny Time

    Cassie what a wonderful Blog. This was so very well written. I would like to add that the best threesome would be me and two wonderful ladies from Sheri's. Then I would not have to worry about all the rest and even better a foursome of Sheri's ladies and me. That's a dream that came true.

    Lenny

    • liam51

      Lenny,

      You are obviously a much younger man!