rewith85man,
For me, personality goes a long way. Of course the big spender is always a good thing. But I would rather party with a gentlemen who is actually a caring and compassionate individual who is generally interested in what I have to say, in addition to the services that offer, rather than someone who is egotistical, rude, or has unpleasant hygiene. It is a combination of factors that attracts me to someone.
Kisses,
Kellie