[Allissa]

It’s another preference that really differs between each lady’s comfort zone and something you would want to discuss with the lady personally. Each lady has her own special way of getting the “flow” started depending on your party negotiations. You will both discuss what your comfortable in the scenarios you are asking. Another fun idea I suggest is you starting the oral fun and the lady going second… There’s lot of exciting ways to get comfortable so it is a good question to ask your lady when you meet but I wouldn’t stress too much so you can let her take lead and enjoy the ride!