Hey BabyMonkey,
You and I have a few similar philosophies. I held on to my virginity until I turned 24 but am not a very religious person. I lost my virginity at Sheri’s and from first hand experience, I can tell you there is nothing to fear. Most of the ladies cater to virgins and if you are open to it, will give you terrific love-making advice and guidance. They are non-judgemental so your lack of experience will not bother them. If you get attached, well, that’s human nature. Since I also desire a more in-depth affair, I see the same woman each visit. You could do the same if you’d like, but set yourself at ease that it will come to an end one day and don’t feel obligated to continue with her if you decide you’d like to party with someone else. Most likely she will not be offended because the most of the ladies want their customers to leave happy and fulfilled.
Here are some words of advice I can give you so that you are prepared on your first visit. You will have to wear a condom to have sex, so if you don’t practice with them during your alone-time yet, begin doing so. During your first time having sex, don’t worry about your performance. Everybody has a different experience and it is nothing to be ashamed about no matter what happens. Some people may come immediately upon penetration, some may not come at all, and some may get erectile dysfunction. In any case, simply relax and enjoy being with a woman who you chose to hang out with for a while. Additionally, don’t focus too much on her pleasure at the start. It’s important and a great feeling when you know you contributed to another’s pleasure, but I think worrying about it right of the bat will add more anxiety and frustration if it doesn’t go well. Instead of her sexual pleasure, perhaps you could begin with foreplay and have her show you how she likes to be touched through massage. She could try her hands on you and you could mimick her moves when it’s your turn. You should also consider learning about manscaping. Check out some videos on YouTube for some grooming tips. Your style in manscaping isn’t so important but trimming yourself will definitely be appreciated. Finally, take your time at the ranch. Don’t feel rushed to choose a lady or negotiate a party.
I hope your first trip goes well!
