Some other information that may be helpful
Use the “Lady’s by date” filter under the LADYS tab to see who will be there when you plan to be there. Take some time check out profiles. Especially the menus (threesomes) (group) and so forth.
As Flint said discuss the date you plan to be there, your expectations in detail and choices for the 2nd lady with the ladies that you plan to party with, through email (in Profiles) or better yet twitter messaging. You can get a fairly complete list of Twitter accounts from the Blog “Blog home>Escorts>Escorts on Twitter”. The ladies can only email while they are there so it can be hard to get ahold of them if they are not currently at the ranch.
Read “Dex’s guide for Newbies” it has a lot of great “timeless” information that really helped me.
Relax and have fun. Don’t treat it as a check box. The ladies are very sweet and very attractive. They are very good at making newbies feel comfortable. I was really nervous in the beginning; it was my first visit too. I had an incredible time and it was worth the time planning and money spent.