It is really up to you what sort of activity you want to pick from the menu for the first time. You have to be comfortable with the girl and what you want to do. I have partied with a couple of virgins and we have had an amazing time together. Some were a little nervous so they wanted the party to be a couple of hours to get really comfortable and really enjoy themselves. However, it is completely different for everyone and you just have to do what feels right for you. I would love to “take you into the world of sex”..but honestly just find someone who makes you feel comfortable.