@Flint – Thank you for your feedback also Flint and I’m sure once I visit perhaps I’ll have a little nugget of information to pass down to the newbies especially those in my anxious over-thinking position.
@CandyAndy – I found your message to be very helpful and encouraging, thank you. 🙂 I do believe you maybe right on just going and I equally find that the reason that I’m over-thinking is because I really want to go, after all the only thing I have to lose is my V-card which I want to lose anyway, haha! And technically I could pop down for a visit sometime on or around my 30th birthday which is November 15th.