Hi UKtraveller,
Let ladies know if there is anything special you want to do or try in a party. But different ladies organise their parties differently. Some want to know every detail of what you are going to do together and some prefer to leave it more open. You will have time to discuss all of this with your lady of choice in her room before the party. There are a lot of ladies here so I’m sure you will be bale to find someone amazing.
Usually if you to talk to ladies in the bar you will be seated so the ladies can come to you. But no one will be offended if you want in she see the perfect lady and you want to walk up and say ‘hi’ after the host has spoken to you. However, if you have been emailing ladies and have already decided on someone before you arrive, you will need to inform the host so someone can tell the lady that you are waiting for her.
I hope that answers your questions.