I traded in my V card at age 38 to a doll of a woman who recently retired. Even though I didn’t mention my status to her before the party, I’m pretty sure she knew — she didn’t even flinch when I orgasmed after about 90 seconds. But DAMN it felt great!!
When we walked back to the bar, I must have had the biggest, dopiest grin on my face, because all of the women sitting there just smiled and shook their heads and wanted to talk to me. For the first time in my life, I felt like a god!!
However you set up the party, do whatever you can to relax (a good stiff drink is my choice) and enjoy yourself.