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For the courtesans (and others) who are into BDSM, I was wondering if you’ve ever experienced what is called “sub space” while as a submissive (I don’t think dominants ever experienced “sub space”, though I could be wrong).
If you did experience it, when was the first feeling? How did it feel to go into “sub space“?
YAY!!!! This one is ALL ME! I am a BDSM porn star known for being one of the hardest bottoms in the industry and yes I have experienced this as well as “rope space”
Basically there is a point where the mix of extreme pain and pleasure force you into a shock like state where you completely let go of control or fear and the desire to resist and its really amazing and almost out of body experience. This is one of the reasons we us spotters here for safety. The first time I experienced sub space was when I was going through slave training and was doing breath play being chocked out and when I woke up from it I cried and felt like I had been reborn.After care is also a very important step because of sub space. the dom really needs to make sure the sub returns to normal before leaving. gently stroking the hair or rubbing the subs back and reassuring them that everything is fine and its ok to go back to being your no sub personality.
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Yes, I’ve been in sub-space a few times, mostly during tickle torture sessions and impact play sessions. It’s a feeling that comes along when you hit that right stride as Dom and sub and it’s almost like your communicating telepathically… your whole body feels tingly and the world seems unreal and euphoric. Doms can get into Dom-space (another thing I’ve personally experienced), and just like subs experience sub-drop, Doms/Tops experience Dom-drop. Aftercare is such an important aspect of any scene for both the Top and the bottom and should always be discussed (along with limits and safewords) prior to any play. Safe words should be re-confirmed during play if you notice the sub slip too far into sub-space, and once play commences limits should never ever be crossed or even asked to be crossed.
Dominates don’t experience “sub-space” but they do achieve what we call “dom-space” and where sub space is all about complete release Dom space is more like an extreme adrinilin high where you are hyper-aware…as a Dom I have never experienced Sub-Space but my Submissives it will usually and hopefully drive a Dominant into Dom space. because Sub-space while the ultimate pleasure experence for a submissive can be extremely dangerous because as the others above mentioned every responsible Dom and any reasonably intelligent sub will have a safe word…problem is a sub in subspace wont realize how far is to far they almost CAN’T use there safe word so the Dom needs to be Hyper aware of his subs physical state to make sure permanent harm isn’t done
@Lovecraft: Thanks for the information. I never heard of “rope space” before. Is it like sub space?
So, when you say “spotters”, is that basically someone (I assume someone who is trained) watching the scene and basically, you can’t do anything to the sub without the spotter’s permission?
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