My Kinks & Fetish: Feedback from Courtesans Especially Welcomed Please

First these thoughts, images, and feelings are all very new for me and therefore still in formation. Second, sometimes I am not sure how to distinguish what is Kinky and what is a Fetish so I am not even going to try here. Third, I am not sure what provoked what I am about to write about but I like it very much.

Cinching: I have found myself very interested in Corsets but only those with laces requiring them to be tightened and then tied. This is NOT about narrowing a woman’s waist for me but rather having my lover comforted by being secured by her lover. I am NOT interested in doing this to the point of pain but ONLY to the point when my Lover says that she feels secure and comfortable. I guess I would say this is the way I would like to tie a woman up. This has lead me to also look a styles of women’s shoes and/or boots involving somewhat complicated and detailed buckling or lacings, either up to the ankle or even to the knees. Again, this is about making sure my Lover is Securely Cinched into her footwear. The act of buckling or getting her laces just right and securely tied is very exciting; I love the details involved and the time it takes to do her shoes and corset. I see these as demonstrating my care and respect for my Lover.

Branding or Marking: as I have thought about the above, I have found myself wondering what my lover could do to reciprocate as I would look ridiculous in a Corset and Heels, LOL. I realized that what I wanted was very different: I want my Lover to Brand or Mark me in some way. Of course the traditional way—and I like traditional—would be for my Lover to mark me with a Hickey, preferably in a visible spot so that I could proudly display such a marking or wounding. This is a Mark or Brand that would need be renewed—Love that. The other way of marking would be to have my Lover press her finger nail(s) into me. This really excites me and momentarily I thought that maybe I invented it, LOL. But I did wonder if there was some tradition of this as I did not really think I was that original and in fact based on my superficial research so far, there is an entire chapter on using fingernails to mark someone in the Kama Sutra. There is even a tradition of how to trim the nails to make certain marks in the skin and these different marks can on their own have meaning and can be combined to create other meanings. Of course a couple could come up with their own Code or Alphabet. As with the Hickey, I would take great pride in being branded and marked in this way somewhere obvious and I find the fact that it would also need to be constantly renewed very exciting, probably in a different style to communicate my Lover’s feelings at the time of her marking me.

With both the Cinching and Branding I think they are very Raw and Primitive, Tribal perhaps: I like this quality very much. To me they are also very physical ways of expressing affection and intimacy. MMMMMMMMM

I am much clearer about my Hair Fetish and don’t think of it is Kinky. I call it my Sweet Obsession. I think that a Woman’s Hair is her Crown and I would Love to brush or comb a woman’s hair. I like to see hair worn up, down, and in a Pony Tail and one of the reasons I like to be on the bottom is so I can feel my lover’s hair brushing my face. If my Lover has her hair up or in a Pony Tail, I love seeing the little Princess Curls on the back of her neck and love kissing her neck. If her hair is up, at some point I will ask/beg for her to permit to slowly take it down and then brush or comb it.

Dear Courtesans of Sheri’s I would love to hear your thoughts and ideas about my these desires, especially how to deepen and/or expand on them.