Flint, I had to think long and hard about this before replying. I can understand how hard it could be to connect with any of their courtesans on an organic level, considering it is Sheri’s. I guess when it comes down to it, it’s in my approach. Usually, when one comes to Sheri’s, they do have an idea of what they would like to do, with whomever can accommodate that request. That’s OK; if there’s a specific look, style, party type, etc., that someone chooses as a prerequisite to saying yes, so be it. I guess that’s an advantage to getting what you want in advance. Personally, when I enter, I go in blank with no agenda. Do I have preferences on what attracts me, yes, but what will get me is the initial interaction, whether they come to me, in the case of Camille (After a long absence Post), just talking about like Anika (Back for another run Post), or in the case of CiCi, it was both her & Michelle just checking to see if I’m all right at first. That’s why lately I take to the phrase “let the night/day dictate what happens”.
In all, it’s about communication & not just about the party. It’s the things that might come up in conversation that can make both of you smile, laugh, enjoy & relay back. That’s why I can remember those little details about my times with not just CiCi, but all the courtesans I’ve enjoyed time with over the years at Sheri’s. And I always write back to them, giving thanks for the opportunity to get together for a good time, hoping they enjoyed my company, too. And they do.
So I guess in the end, my approach to this curious hobby still works for me.