GFE?

Whisper, GFE refers to girlfriend experience (a service offered by Courtesans to replicate the experience of an actual girlfriend date) and it’s definitely something that should be discussed with your chosen Courtesan during private face to face negotiations. FYI, a Sheri’s Ranch bungalow party is the closest brothel intimacy achievable to GFE. GFE previously meant that your Courtesan made you feel like she was really your girlfriend including intimate conversation or talking dirty, deep French kissing, bare-back fellatio, uncovered cunnilingus and approximately one hour duration; however, I don’t believe there exists a legal Courtesan who offers the full original GFE. STD’s, herpes, hepatitis, tuberculosis, MRSA, lice, scabies and HIV/AIDS have drastically affected a Courtesans sex menu due to health standards and laws. MRSA, lice and scabies are not subject to LPIN statutes but definitely affect a Courtesan’s menu for what she is willing to offer clients out of concern for her personal protection.

Although most Sheri’s Ranch Courtesans will make the client feel like she really is their girlfriend including erotic dialogue, the GFE party will usually last one hour depending on negotiations, but fellatio must be performed with a condom, and a dental dam is supposed to be in place during cunnilingus if offered at all. Kissing may not be allowed by some Courtesans because of herpes, TB, and hepatitis exposure, but breast kissing is usually permitted along with cuddling and caressing. Finger or tongue penetration may be forbidden. Anal sex is rarely allowed, but never without a condom. In short it’s imperative that the client fully disclose to their Lady everything desired and not assume anything. The consensus of several authorities concludes that GFE doesn’t necessarily mean precisely anything specific anymore.

It’s recommended to meet your lady first, develop some chemistry or a connection and then discuss party specifics. Most ladies want to meet a client and talk before agreeing to certain risqué requests. If the customer fails to ask about specific liberties or sex acts during negotiations, they should not complain later that an invasive intimacy was not allowed. Courtesans must be informed of a client’s party expectations, so don’t be embarrassed to ask; conclusively, a client may discover that they desire something that’s taboo or a specialty item service.

CWMC and Urban Dictionary define most of the terms as follows:

SEX IN NEVADA, SIN, DEFINITIONS BY AFRIEND
Adult Sex Industry Abbreviations and Acronyms / Followed by Generic Acronyms: http://sex-in-nevada.net/smforum/index.php/topic,3250.0.html

GFE = Girlfriend Experience, doesn’t mean anything these days.
RBGFE = BBBJ, CFS, DFK, DATY, and MSOG.
RBGFE = myRedBook’s definintion of GFE (BBBJ, CFS, DFK, DATY, and MSOG).
BBBJ = Bareback Blow Job = BJ without condom, beebeebeejay, fellatio, may not deep-throat or swallow.
CFS = Covered Full Service = Sex with condom.
DFK = Deep French Kissing, open mouth with tongue.
DATY = Dining at the Y, Cunnilingus.
MSOG = Multiple Shots on Goal = multiple releases: she allows you to have more than 1 orgasm during the session.

NAC (Nevada Administrative Code) Chapter 441A https://www.leg.state.nv.us/NAC/NAC-441A.html

NRS (Nevada Revised Statutes) Chapter 441A https://www.leg.state.nv.us/NRS/NRS-441A.html#NRS441ASec120

Wow Firefighter, you really explained this better than anyone could I believe. Although there are limitations, I think your one point is outstanding….It comes down to meeting and talking with someone you feel a nice connection with…Taking your time and getting to know some things about each other. Safety will always come first, but when you come down to it, it isn’t certain “acts” that make it a GFE (girlfriend experience), it’s a connection, an attitude, a feeling…The word “friend” is in there for a reason. Many of us do indeed become long term friends with certain people. I’m sure everyone can relate to feeling and sensing a true connection with someone almost instantly. Is it emotion, is it sheer desire? Sometimes….But sometimes it’s just a wonderful connection between two good people!!!!!

Take care all!

Charina Lee

Eagleman,
These are some Sex & Nudity Guidelines & General Conduct Stipulations to the best of my limited knowledge, so you may want to confirm with Sheri’s Staff or Courtesans.

I understand Sex is allowed after negotiations only in approved rooms… the Lady’s personal assigned room, 5 standard Bungalows, Playland Bungalow #6, Bachelor Party Suite, Jacuzzi Suite and Bubble Bath Suite, but sex in the water is questionable due to possible condom protection failure… There are positively no surveillance cameras in party rooms, so no films are available to purchase for posterity. However, the rooms may be infrequently monitored audibly for Sheri’s Ladies’ safety and protection from clients or vice versa. Also, I believe there are security buttons in all party rooms for medical or safety emergencies.

Sheri’s Courtesans are prohibited from visiting a guest’s hotel room; however, a guest may share that room with a man or woman who is not a Sheri’s Courtesan. Of course guests may indulge in sex within their hotel rooms, but without the company of Sheri’s Courtesans. A patron may talk with a Sheri’s Lady in the Sports Bar and swimming pool area, but sex is not allowed. Ladies and gentlemen hotel guests and partiers may use the outside hot tub or swimming pool, but must wear at least bathing suit bottoms… again sex is only allowed in designated rooms. In addition, everyone must wear top and bottom covering plus footwear in the Sports Bar or Sheri’s Office. There exist surveillance cameras in the Sports Bar, the main building and outside property including the swimming pool area for everyone’s protection.

Patrons are not allowed past the Sports Bar curtain leading to the Parlor and Ladies’ rooms unless accompanied by Sheri’s Personnel or to visit their Sheri’s Hotel room or Sheri’s Ranch Office. Patrons are basically only granted access to the Sports Bar Restaurant and restrooms; the Driver’s lounge, Ladies’ dining room, behind the bar and beyond the swinging door leading out of the bar to the Ladies’ rooms hallway are all off limits. Patrons are not allowed to venture past the Sports Bar curtain if a lineup is in progress or a hostess is conducting a post party interview. Clients often desire total anonymity, so only people directly involved are allowed access for that period of time and other patrons may not view those private proceedings. Patrons are advised against loitering in the Parlor, since that requires Courtesans not on duty to be escorted by Sheri’s personnel past when traveling from their rooms; furthermore, Courtesans may not converse with a patron until she has been cleared for work in compliance with Nevada Brothel Laws. Also, laptop or wireless phone usage and picture taking are not allowed in the Sports Bar or other stipulated areas for patrons’ privacy.

Fantastic, thanks for the info Firefighter.

I’m just going to jump in here and clarify a few facts. The NV state statute says that there is no transfer of body fluids. That is what makes LPIN allowed. None of the ranches condone BBBJ, DFK or DATY without protection ie…. dental dams and condoms. There is no transfer of bodily fluids. If any Independent contractor offers you a BBBJ, DFK, DATY she is offering it to everyone and that should be a red flag to you. You should walk her then let management know. You can contract an STD in your mouth because it is a mucus membrane. If you go to the CDC website you can educate yourself with the actual facts. In my opinion NO sexual activity is worth the risk.

Firefighter as always very informative..

Its my first post back to the new forums,version 3.0 for me, and I’m gonna start by stirring it up a bit and with the woman I loving have tagged “The Queen Bee”. Dena I love ya girl, it has been entirely too long, I miss you much and can’t wait to catch up with you soon. Nonetheless being a bit of an academic and being accused, time immemorial, of being anal retentive ( to wit my reply ” Not my fault I was toilet trained at gunpoint”) I am going to agree and disagree with you here.

First,

I’m just going to jump in here and clarify a few facts. The NV state statute says that there is no transfer of body fluids. That is what makes LPIN allowed. None of the ranches condone BBBJ, DFK ot DATY without protection ie…. dental dams and condoms.

I have looked at NRS, NAC and Nye County Code and can find no citation of ” No Transfer Of Body Fluids”. Your claim of engaging in certain activities exclusively with the use of dental dams and condoms is most certainly supported in NAC 441A.805 requiring the use of latex or polyurethane prophylactics. Which is supported by NRS 441A.120 under the instruction and authority of the Nevada Board Of Health. All of which positively conclude your claim as to BBBJ’s and DATY. The DFK arena seems a bit more of a gray area, from a legal standpoint, I have found no relevent statute or codified code that addresses this concern with a significant degree of specificity. Your point, contextually speaking, as it applies to certain health hazards are valid, Mononucleosis, Herpes strains, Streptococcal infections Et Al are some on the short(er) list of risks, levels of risk as it pertains to each contagion(s) and their septicity reportedly vary. This seems to be, from my POV, an angle that has yet to be addressed by the State Of Nevada or relevent counties.

This is where good solid individual judgement should come into play. We all know law is law and that…..well is that. Laws are broken as well as observed and its up to the individual(s) to make the choice(s) when they come to the crossroads. All things we do in life carry certain risk(s)………I am making no recommendations as to what decision anyone should come to or make. We are all adults, in the final analysis its up to us, joint and several.

In my opinion NO sexual activity is worth the risk.

Ahem…..hold on right there my lovely……even engaging with the use of prophylactics carries a certain level of risk…. albeit the risk is greatly diminished………the only sure risk free approach is abstinence. Sorry, not ducking here, if I go too long the hams and the roasts at Albertsons start winking at me and the butcher starts looking at me distainfully….there’s a reason I come to see you and the girls….it keeps me from being arrested and the meat cutters union from putting a bounty on my head. LOL!!!

Love you!!!

See you when I can!!!

My Best,

Mav

Ranchmama Dena, I agree with your management position of not condoning the transfer of body fluids for health reasons regardless of the LPIN statutes. The fact is that infections and disease can be transferred through unprotected sex. I’ve had two friends die in the last 2 years from cancer caused by HPV through unprotected cunnilingus that occurred many years prior. If a sexually active promiscuous person continually engages in unprotected sex the probability of eventually infecting themselves or a sex partner is substantially increased. A male client may transfer the undetected and non-symptomatic HPV infection to a Courtesan or vice versa. A woman may be tested for HPV through a Pap Smear, but there is no valid test for a man.

Human papillomavirus infection (HPV) is an unprotected sex cancer causing concern for men and women alike. HPV is passed on through genital contact most often during vaginal or anal sex. In addition, HPV may also be transmitted through oral sex. There are more than 40 types of HPV that can infect the genitals. Genital human papillomavirus, HPV, is the most common sexually transmitted infection, STI.

HPV oncogenic strain infections can cause women’s cervical cancer virus (specifically cervix, vulva & vagina); HPV affects men causing throat cancer (oropharyngeal), anal cancer and penile cancer (testicles & penis) as well as genital warts and respiratory problems (papillomatosis, RRP) that don’t develop into cancers. Note: Other factors, notably tobacco and alcohol use, may also play a role assisting HPV to cause these cancers.

In most cases HPV clears up through the body’s natural immunity system before it causes any health problems. Most people who become infected with HPV don’t know they have the virus, since there are usually no signs or symptoms. Also, HPV caused cancers are usually advanced and hard to treat due to the absence of these visible signs and symptoms including bleeding and pain.

HPV is not related to herpes or HIV (the virus that causes AIDS). HPV is a different virus from HIV, and causes specific health problems. HPV does not live in the blood cells, but rather lives on the skin. Also, whereas HIV can lead to AIDS, genital HPV can lead to nononcogenic genital warts or certain types of genital, anal and throat cancers.

HPV currently infects approximately 79 million Americans, and about 14 million people become newly infected each year. HPV is so common that nearly all sexually-active men and women who practice unprotected sex will acquire at least one type of HPV during their lifetimes even if both partners are totally monogamous. However, engaging in unprotected sex with multiple partners astronomically increases the chances of contracting the HPV infection. Fortunately for young people there are now preventive HPV vaccines available for males and females under age 26.

GFE is mandatory for me or I wont go through with the Party.

I don’t feel that anyone can have a “true” GFE and stay within the strict guidelines set up to prevent STD’s spreading.
No deep french kissing, no fingers inside the lady, no cunnilingus (without a latex barrier)! so where exactly is the GFE?

Okay true romantic dates go along way, and intimate evenings of pillow talk make one feel good. but in my opinion a true GFE has to do with the old Baseball analogy. getting to bat and hitting the ball, you move to first base (french kissing and breast massage thru clothing), 2nd base (top is off and kissing and sucking nipples, feeling girl thru her panties), 3rd base (naked, fingers inside her, cunnilingus preformed), finally home (full sexual intercourse)… okay that;s my view of a GFE, and I know that everyone has their own views.

I don’t feel that anyone can have a “true” GFE and stay within the strict guidelines set up to prevent STD’s spreading.
No deep french kissing, no fingers inside the lady, no cunnilingus (without a latex barrier)! so where exactly is the GFE?

Guys, This is the road as I see it in this order.

State/County mandates, house policy and the ladies personal standards of behavior/ list of services.

State and municipal guidelines are somewhat static in nature, house policy and the ladies model/standard can be quite fluid in nature and change from time to time and/or client to client. House policy is obviously set by the management of the individual house, as a result things can change from time to time and house to house. The ladies standards are typically the most fluid and rightfully can change most rapidly.

Remember for us this is a quasi-contact sport and most of the ladies are great players but at their core these ladies are human first and foremost. I have found hygiene plays a large role, the better your hygiene the better your mileage should be. Sometimes her guidelines can change based on individual characteristics as well. For example, I was once “walked” by a lady for no other reason than I reminded her too much of an ex-boyfriend. This just creeped her out and regardless of what I wanted or was offering it wasn’t going to happen……and I respect her decision and appreciate her honest and above board approach. The nature of what these ladies do can make this a difficult terrain to negotiate sometimes….especially for them. As a result, If you have dragon breath and redneck tooth I don’t think its reasonable to expect a lot of facetime.

As a result the defination of GFE can vary from lady to lady, during negotiations you should respectfully and tactfully inquire as to your individual desires. If you leave nothing to chance your chances of being disappointed diminish greatly.

As far as confusing/conflating what is in the legal domain, under authority of the house and a matter of individual professional adjudication is a different detail. I do take exception to this specifically when I see or believe this is being misrepresented with or without intent.

My Best,

Mav

Nice hot pic, Charina Lee.