Matt, I think you should give it a chance. The post about the guy not getting approached didn’t happen at Shari’s. I have the same issue with weight that you do but when I was there last month, everyone I met was great. Granted I had an appointment scheduled ahead of time, my lady introduced me to others in the bar afterwards. I didn’t get a bad feeling from any of them. Just because your first choice won’t be there, I’m sure you will find one and have a great time. Remember that for the ladies this is business and as long as you treat them with respect, you will get the same in return.