[mrpaul]

I hear alot about GFE (girlfriend experience) and want to know more about what I might expect and what not to expect.
It has been awhile since my last visit and I plan to return soon.

[Anonymous]

Mr. Paul,
Originally a GFE meant that a Courtesan sex party would include a blowjob, dining at the Y, deep French kissing and intercourse, but 50 years ago condoms were seldom used because STDs were not as much of a problem. Syphilis and gonorrhea could be successfully treated with antibiotics and hepatitis, herpes and HIV/AIDS were not well known or thought to be easily sexually transmitted.

Today a GFE may include a CBJ (blowjob with a condom), DDDATY (cunnilingus with a dental dam), LK (light kissing – no tongue or deep French kissing) and CFS (sex with a condom); however, due to LPIN laws and communicable diseases (STDs) many Courtesans have their own personal variation of a GFE.

The girlfriend experience (GFE) is outlined on this link. http://www.sherisranch.com/sex-menu/GFE-Girl-Friend-Experience.aspx

You might contact a Courtesan because they are all independent contractors and their GFE are personalized according to their interpretations and your desires.
Sheri’s Weekly Lineup http://www.sherisranch.com/lineup.aspx
Scheduled Ladies http://www.sherisranch.com/comingsoon.aspx

Adult Sex Industry Abbreviations and Acronyms / Followed by Generic Acronyms http://sex-in-nevada.net/smforum/index.php/topic,3250.0.html

[mrpaul]

Thanks Firefighter.. Its been a long time since I posted on here. But now planning a return trip.

[Big LA Dodger Fan]

I am very disappointed to hear GFE does not include DFK. Is this automatic or can I negotiate this with each Courtesan I plan to see the eleven days I will be there? I was thinking Sheri’s would be the one place I could DFK.

• This reply was modified 9 years, 4 months ago by Big LA Dodger Fan.

[Anonymous]

Big LA Dodger Fan,
There are many different interpretations of a GFE and each Independent Contractor Courtesan may provide her own personal version. MyRedbook states a GFE = Girlfriend Experience and doesn’t mean anything these days; RBGFE = BBBJ (now CBJ), CFS, DFK, DATY and MSOG. http://sex-in-nevada.net/smforum/index.php/topic,3250.0.html

Madam Dena’s interpretation of the Nevada prostitution statute is there is supposed to be no transfer of body fluids. http://newblog.sherisranch.com/forums/topic/gfe/#post-685

However, other interpretations have assumed the lawmakers intended this to mean a man’s ejaculate, and a condom would provide required protection. I believe the statute was written intentionally vague so it wouldn’t be overly restrictive. https://www.leg.state.nv.us/NAC/NAC-441A.html#NAC441ASec800

There are some Sheri’s Courtesans that refrain from kissing because of the possible transmission of herpes, hepatitis or tuberculosis. HIV/AIDS requires a blood transfer, so kissing isn’t normally a concern. Other Sheri’s Courtesans may offer kissing to select clients that have passed a DC and don’t appear to have any STI symptoms. Kissing isn’t listed in the “Search Ladies by what she caters to” menu items, because it’s extremely personal and Courtesans that kiss want to meet the client face to face before making a commitment. The Ladies usually don’t publicize that they will allow kissing. I recommend that you discuss your desired sex party expectations with your selected Courtesan in the privacy of her bedroom during negotiations. http://www.sherisranch.com/search-ladies.aspx

[Big LA Dodger Fan]

On a slightly different topic, should I bring my own Dental Dams for DDDATY?

[Anonymous]

Big LA Dodger Fan,
You could bring your own dental dam because some of the Ladies use Saran Wrap, lol! Of course, any products a client intends to introduce into a party are subject to the approval of the Courtesan. There are many different types and manufacturers of dental dams and some are much better than others. I had one Courtesan produce one that was dark, thicker than normal and opaque, so I told her that it simply wouldn’t work because I couldn’t see through it nor feel her clitoris. A man really intent on his amorous lovemaking work must feel and see what he’s doing, lol!

If you make a connection or establish romantic chemistry with a Courtesan your brothel experience can be fantastic. The kissing will be more sensual and spontaneous if you’re both aroused. Courtesans enjoy respectful flirting and being romanced like any other woman! Also, on occasion the dental dam may slide out of place temporarily, because the area can become very wet and slippery, lol!

[Helexan]

You will want to check with the lady or ladies you plan on partying with. Some may be ok with bring your own some may not. Some may be ok if you bring your own and it’s in a factory sealed box. Other may want you to have it shipped directly to them. It just depends on what the are comfortable with. As always if there is any room for question, ask it in advance if possible. The last thing you want to happen is you show up with this master plan and have it derailed before things even get started.

[CandyAndy]

If you have the option to use Saran wrap, I’d suggest you use that. Like Firefighter said, dental dams can be much harder to see through and the Saran wrap seems to be satisfactory. The good thing about dental dams is that they can taste like strawberries, but they are also fairly pricy. The cons of plastic wrap is that it can be harder to apply because of the simple comic nature of plastic wrap, and if it’s not held down, it will glue itself to your face, cuz you know, plastic wrap. But after you get through those battles, it is soooo much easier to navigate.

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