October 16, 2013 at 12:25 am #5491BlueEyedMontanaParticipant
Considerations When Looking for Your Perfect Courtesan Companion
Beauty, wit, charm, and engaging conversational skills are attributes many men look for in a woman to create a wonderful, fulfilling relationship. Some may be partial to blondes, brunettes, redheads, or exotics. Some may enjoy a tall and thin runway model physique, Renaissance-inspired alluring curves, or well-toned, muscular, athletic forms. Some may want to foster a new chapter in their life, recreate a youthful adventure, share a new and exciting fantasy, or just enjoy good, old-fashioned sex. Whatever the reason for entering into a relationship, if time is not available to create that “perfect connection”, such as when choosing a courtesan companion here at Sheri’s Ranch, what are the most important attributes you should look for to make sure your time and money are well spent?
Sheri’s Ranch does not have a woman working here who is not absolutely stunning. No matter the ethnicity, race, or age of the woman, she will be enticing, sexy, enchanting, and obviously well-versed in the ways of seduction. However, appearance and public exchanges of pleasantries are not key factors in determining whether or not the lady in front of you is the right choice to fulfill your desires.
When starting the journey into the world of courtesan companionship, research into those who may interest you is paramount to satisfying your needs. This research obviously begins with the viewing of photographs that are offered to show the best assets of any given lady or a glance around the room if you have ventured in unaware of who may be available. Here at Sheri’s Ranch, photographs are also displayed on a monitor system in the bar which allows for a quick scan of others who may be in the building but not in the bar area. With this initial perusal, the beginnings of an idea may be forming; although, this should truly be only the beginning.
To ensure that time and money are well spent the lady in question should exhibit these Seven Charms (Charles, A., n.d). Taking your time to ensure they do is vital to developing a true courtesan experience worth the effort undertaken to venture to Sheri’s Ranch.
Consider everything you do with a man an erotic preliminary. It may last for an hour or days and weeks. Entirely up to you, timing is the art of offering a gesture, your voice, a touch, or whatever is needed in any given moment. Timing means being keenly observant, on the lookout for what someone likes, and then, at just at the right instant, effortlessly saying or offering a gesture that brings beauty into the space. Usually, timing is an invisible art, for when what is most needed to be said or done is given, the courtesan disappears and gives credit to someone else.
Are we born with it, or can we create it? The only thing that matters is that you find yours and trust it. Believe in your beauty. Be willing to be seen, and take joy when you are. Drink in compliments like you are savoring a fine wine. When you are given even a hint of a compliment smile shyly and let it linger. Your shyness can be irresistible.
Humor and laughter are your greatest assets. Your humor dissolves his insecurities. Your intelligence, delivered with wit will not be felt as competitive. Competing with men, in a direct or overly serious manner dampens their attraction to you. On the other hand, some men love playful, intense competition. They sometimes love to be tested and they love to have powerful women around them. Your power and comments should elevate them in some genuine way; in other words, the key to using your wit in a cheeky way means that you stretch your intelligence and use it to raise his feeling about himself. Then, with wit, a man is more open to being shown where and how he could be even better.
Kindly appreciate any man who praises you. His attraction is flattering, yet it doesn’t mean that you have to do anything but enjoy it. Listening with empathy, resist the temptation to over fix or change his situation. Fully hear where he is and then offer a small ray of hope. A courtesan is a seductress, not a schoolteacher or therapist. Men are highly attracted to the courtesan aspect of a woman- for she likes him as he is. She also lets him know she believes in his ability to make it. Believe in him more than he believes in himself, this is benevolence.
Men love gaiety. Your frivolity, your playfulness is highly attractive. It’s delightful to men. The lighter you are the more room there is for others to relax around you. Lighten yourself like a butterfly landing on a branch. Become a carefree power spot, calmly attracting laughter and an easygoing breeze to follow you wherever you go. Your calm relieves a man of his own worries. The brighter, more easygoing you are the stronger and more confident he will feel. It’s even better if you make him feel your sense of gaiety comes from him.
Grace is elegance in your movements. It also appears in your manner of speaking tenderly and politely in everything that you do. Allowing your graceful movements to be seen and enjoyed, grace is elicited through your eyes in the way you look at him. Your smile accepts him for who he is. Your grace melts away his insecurities, warms his feelings, calms his mind, and calls forth his desire to respectfully enjoy your gifts.
Even though you may never choose to have sex of any kind with a particular man, convey through your gestures that you could. Give signs of your interest while allowing the mystery of the outcome to remain open. Charm means keeping the possibility of sexual play in the air, while clearly conveying the timing is entirely up to you. He will respect you for this and actually likes the playful tension of the dance. Your openness entices and challenges him to remain in your good graces. He will want to be respectful, not because you outwardly tell him what to do; rather it’s his choice to be courteous. Rather than frustrating a man, temper his eagerness by allowing possibilities of connecting with you to remain possible. Consider his sexual interest as natural and good. Inspire him to offer you delights, and show him your sincere pleasure; thank him when he does.
The key to acquiring the charms of a courtesan is through sincerity and generosity. Regardless of your age or how you look, you can share these qualities and charms not only to delight the men in your life, but to cultivate your soft, enduring feminine nature as well. The best part is that the more you freely give, the more beautiful you feel and thus the more beautiful you will become. Just as a flower effortlessly offers its petals to the sun without expecting anything in return, any woman can give with tenderness whenever she likes. As if dropping a pebble into a pond, watch the vast ripples, the effects of your giving, spreading out and touching others in beauty.
Never should a gentleman feel rushed or unwanted at any point in his exchanges with a courtesan. Never should a courtesan act as if the encounter is strictly about an exchange of money. These Seven Charms should be a guide to finding the companion that best fits your desires and needs, helping ensure a positive and sometimes ongoing relationship within the world of courtesan companionship.
Charles, A., (n.d.), http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Amara_Charles
Attachments:November 17, 2013 at 6:48 am #5844playdesperadoParticipant
Montana … I read through this post of yours yesterday. Very true! Open book of you Sugar. Wonderfully written, so eloquent, intelligent and so deep on a level most guys don’t even want to think. But you know I do. Have I told you you’re amazing, lately? Such a complex, beautiful and caring person. Also an exquisite, sexy, alluring woman. It’s so difficult wrapping my mind around “the total you”, much easier wrapping my arms, because all the historical perspective, and most of today’s for a woman of your business stature says YOU can’t be real. But I won’t worry about history or others’ thoughts …. I have scene and experienced the truth!
All my love … Playdesperado
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