June 2, 2015 at 6:52 pm #14539
A prostitute is defined as a person who engages in sexual acts for money. In my experience of working as a prostitute in a legal brothel, my job description goes way beyond exchange of payment for sex. While being provided a safe and comfortable environment I am able to expand my abilities and give physical relief along with an intangible life experience for men, women, and couples. My involvement in their lives for that period of time can not only be a quick fill of pleasure but also a lasting feel of sexual exploration, confidence, and harmony. For the open minded, a new self proclamation can be found or renewed and you leave with a euphoria others are sure to notice. Sexual confidence is key to sexual satisfaction and shedding your insecurities to open yourself to new ideas in the bedroom can open doors to a new way of life.
We live in a culture where sex sells and everyone is searching for their sexual identity. We want to learn what turns us on and how we can please ourselves and our partners that is not the normal routine. With vast varieties of porn being easily attained with the access of the internet, and the sex industry being widely acceptable in social media, our view of sex is aberrant. My clientele come to me and want to try new positions, learn techniques, use different toys, and explore fetishes. The brothel is your sexual playground and the prostitute is your teacher and companion. What a better teacher than someone who is frequently involved in deviant encounters and has knowledge of all aspects of sex. At Sheri’s Ranch we can take that role of the teacher to whole new level in our PlayLand Classroom!
Being an introvert in my everyday life, as a prostitute I have the opportunity to break out of my shell and be a sexually confident woman. I get to share that feeling with the other shy people of the world and help them find their sexual confidence and gain experience. Being with a partner who is there to please not judge can relieve so much pressure and give the comfort to be your best in the bedroom. The goal is not to make me happy it’s to achieve your own wishes and I am the assistant to help you get there.
Another important aspect of my work it’s being a companion for those who don’t have many options or want to be safe in their choice to spice up their life. Physically challenged clients may never have the chance to have sexual pleasure because they do not have all the opportunities to find their significant other because of their handicaps. Older widowers who have lost the love of their life do not want to be in another relationship but still want to be pleased. A wife may not physically be able to engage in sex because of injury or discomfort from previous complications and they still want their husband to have that gratification without engaging in a actual affair. Couples want to add to their relationship without mixed intentions or the awkwardness after the encounter. There is businessmen who don’t have time for relationship and lesbians need love too. I can provide them with the chance to fulfill these desires in a professional matter.
Payment is not the only reward in my adventures as a prostitute. I am allowed to enter such a vulnerable part of someone’s life and elevate their self perception. Being a people pleaser this is an indescribable fulfillment I achieve on a regular basis. Hearing how I improved ones life or relationship is priceless. Let’s not forget I get to play with lots of hot women! It is a dream job that more are becoming more open to appreciating and I look forward to the growth and acceptance of legal prostitution.June 2, 2015 at 7:36 pm #14541AnonymousInactive
I hope all who enjoy your line of work ditto what you wrote because as a guy whose never had girlfriend, I really wish legal prostitution was available all around the country and world while it was also given a bigger definition than simply money for sex.June 2, 2015 at 8:43 pm #14542
Thank you for coming and supporting us! I appreciate you appreciating us!June 3, 2015 at 3:17 am #14543
Nicely written, Allissa. I would not have expected that long essay from you, at least years ago.June 4, 2015 at 6:53 am #14551
Thank you, I’m all growed up 🙂June 4, 2015 at 2:38 pm #14572
is that good for you and us?June 4, 2015 at 10:29 pm #14573techieguy80Participant
Excellent article from an amazing woman! Words can’t describe what you have done for me and my confidence, sexual and otherwise. Being a fellow shy person in the “normal” world, it’s always fun to be able to relax with you.June 5, 2015 at 3:11 am #14575
I wonder what the other ladies have to say on this topic? I am unlikely to remember to ask on my next visit to the Ranch.June 19, 2015 at 11:10 pm #14752rewith85manParticipant
I am a little surprised that you are introverted, Allissa.
I would like to meet you.
I cannot wait to come to Sheri’s Ranch on September 7. I am making this trip come true although I am facing few obstacles.
I love and have respect for these legal courtesans at Sheri’s Ranch. I am eager to meet/see them in the flesh.July 5, 2015 at 1:32 pm #14885
I would love to meet too! Not sure of my schedule for September yet but if I make it in that week I will let you know! Thanks for being sweet!July 6, 2015 at 11:12 am #14920NewbieParticipant
Allissa, I think you all do so much more than just meet the physical needs. I believe that you help heal some emotional wounds that some of us have carried in our lives of not being good enough looking, endowed physically, or just feeling shy and never stepping out from behind life’s curtain. I have been on the fence about visiting, embarrassed and lacking confidence. I have many problems and need to feel connected and comfortable with the girl I am with. You girls do so much more than just being physical. You help heal much deeper needs and wounds. We all need to be wanted and cared about. Sorry about the rant.July 9, 2015 at 12:58 pm #14941Will7Participant
Allissa, this is a great thing you’ve written. My response repeats what you have said, in different words. I have been to Shari’s only once, but I have experienced this other times with some strippers. Spending time with a woman who is happy with her sex, obviously enjoys what she is doing, and obviously enjoys my lust and my body, makes me feel more confident and honest and trusting with all women. All women in all non-sexual contexts, too, I mean. I guess I carry that guilt of believing that “men all want one thing” and that women are somehow always a bit of a victim. I know it’s not true, but that guilt is there. Being with someone like you, is a reminder that the next woman I talk to has her body, her feelings, her life, and her strength, and that none of that is dependent on me.
Newbie, I have unsolicited advice for you. (And in fact, I’m probably writing most of this for myself.) I’m sure you’d prefer Allissa rather than me to respond; I bet she will soon.
You did not rant. You sound scared and hurt. Here’s what you should do.
Come visit Shari’s. I’m overwhelmed to read so many comments from virgins and hurt men here. For these guys, places like this are truly doing good!
Before you come:
Look in the mirror and remember that you are one of a kind. Handsome or ugly or disfigured, you are still you, and have immense worth. I don’t know what good you have done in the world, but you have done some, and all of that is there in your face and body. (I think women can see this sort of worth better than men….)
Get a professional haircut in a salon from a woman attractive to you. Accept her advice if she has any. Shave. Trim your pubic hair.
Buy new underwear.
Go to a real men’s store and buy new slacks and a dress shirt.
Get a few thousand dollars. They can’t talk prices, but I’m pretty sure a few hundred dollars are not going get you what you need and deserve.
Call Shari’s and reserve one of their $75 rooms. Plan on staying a day.
Walk in the bar and immediately talk to the hostess and tell her you’re hanging out for a while, you’re going to find a lady, and that you intend to have a wonderful 24 hours. Admit you’re scared out of your wits, but don’t whine or dwell. Laugh with her! She’ll advise you. She’ll probably help you get your room. She may suggest sitting down and talking to different women.
Do you drink, Newbie? If you are a responsible drinker, have one now. (Do not drink more than a little!!!) Offer to buy a drink for every woman that you sit with.
When I went, it felt good to have the room available. As I walked to get it, as I came and went, I could pass by women and smile, I could walk through the line-up area, I could walk past the pool, I could feel at home a bit. It all helps relax one.
The women. I talked to at least five women more than a little. They were real people, with different styles, looks, ways of talking. It felt so good to talk, to joke, and to look, and then to know that all I’d have to say is, please I’d love to talk more in your room, and to know that we could go be alone and touch and have sex. I trusted everyone I met, that they would be 100% accepting and supportive. They are regular normal women, except that they have sex like this normally and are used to guys like us, and except that they are all really attractive. The women you talk to will want to relax you and teach you about how women and men can be with each other. The woman you will be with will absolutely have as good of a time as you do.
WillJuly 9, 2015 at 2:34 pm #14943
some extensive advice there, Will.July 9, 2015 at 6:17 pm #14946techieguy80Participant
Great advice Will, hope you will make the visit after reading that Newbie, follow it and you will leave Sheri’s a new man!July 11, 2015 at 11:33 am #14964NewbieParticipant
Will thank you for the great advice. Everyone has been so helpful and kind. I am trying to write a few of the girls seeing if we connect in some way. Allissa has been great but our future schedules do not match. The ballpark tip on what to bring and to stay overnight was very helpful. Thank you allJuly 31, 2015 at 7:57 pm #15222
Wow Will, you seem like a cool dude. Amazing advice! IF we haven’t met yet we need too! Newbie Will is correct on all levels and def follow his advice. I’m sorry our schedules don’t match but I will have more dates posted soon just incase there’s a chance later on. Good luck and be confident, you got this 🙂October 29, 2015 at 11:03 am #16072
A little Throwback action 🙂 I did put my little heart into this 🙂October 29, 2015 at 7:30 pm #16082roswellParticipant
Very good/true thread. The stigma of the world’s oldest profession is sad & sadly most likely to not change in our lifetime. Years ago I mistakenly told 7 co-workers who weren’t close friends, of ventures near Carson City & I was treated different, & paying for sex was all I was known for at work. So I keep my Sheri’s trips secret , with the exception of 4 close friends . It’s a shame that Courtesan isn’t as mainstream/acceptable of an occupation such as school teacher. Guys who pay are considered losers by many . Let me tell you, the caliber of Sheri’s gals makes me not a loser. There are many 8’s 9’s & 10’s here . Going to strip clubs is socially acceptable & the last time I went, I spent $400 on $20 lap dances just to leave w/blue balls. For more cash, you get your manly needs achieved at Sheri’s. To me, going to strip clubs is stupid. Years ago there were only 2 Yelp reviews of Sheri’s, now there are 19–perhaps a sign that clients aren’t as ashamed. You women are saints & healers in my book
November 2, 2015 at 8:32 am #16095
- This reply was modified 5 years, 6 months ago by roswell.
Well said Roswell. You are awesome sauce. That sucks your peers weren’t as supportive. To the people that shame others for visiting a brothel haven’t had their d**k sucked right yet 😉
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