Either or. The nut/bolt parties were always a hit in university but cards against our other card games could be fun. A great way to help match a punter with the right lady. I mean finding the right gal before hand and booking is fun but not knowing exactly all the little things of all the ladies, sometimes meeting them all can be a challenge. I am not a big fan of the “line up”. Too much pressure and then you have a brief moment thinking “did i make the right choice?”. That is until you get escorted to the ladies room and all doubt is usually but a distant memory………