I understand a lot of what you are saying poetic, the Ranch and the ladies there just have a way of making things different. I can walk into the bar @ Sheri’s and talk to the incredibly beautiful half naked women way easier than I can talk to an average fully clothed woman in a regular bar. I can only imagine that is because when in the regular bar I feel like I have to impress women so they will be interested in dating me, while in Sheri’s that’s not the case and most of the time it’s the other way around, the ladies are trying to impress you so they get your business. It really is a one of a kind place and losing that burden of virginity is an incredible feeling, then there is nothing to worry about back in the real world because you know what to expect in all stages of the process. Sure every woman is different in what they like, etc. but just knowing that you can get through it is a big step in the right direction.