December 11, 2013 at 3:49 pm #6201
When I’m alone and the urge is overwhelming, in the words of The Divinyls “When I think about you I touch myself”. It’s not unheard of that men masturbate but so do women. The truth is there are just as many options for manual stimulation for the ladies as for men, if not more! It’s all a mater of being creative and letting go of inhibitions. I love my body and there is no shame in me enjoying myself when there’s no one to help this damsel in distress.
Masturbating has taught me that before I can be a good lover to my partner, I must first be a great lover to myself. It’s taught me to loose my inhibitions, and give in to what feels good to the point of orgasm. After years of practice, getting to the finish line with my partner becomes second nature because I know my body inside and out. Touching myself has definitely increased my desire for sex with a partner and resulted in more intensely satisfying “O’s” when we’re together.
Much like when I’m with a guy I like to take my time, set a mood and be seduced even if the seducer is me lol. There is nothing more relaxing than a nice hot shower… with a detachable shower head to hit the right spot 😉 A nice oil rub down while the lights are dimmed and the music in the background. Mmmmm hmmmm let the fun begin. The point is to keep it spicy by trying different things and never over do it. I can turn just about anything into a sex toy…Think of all the times you might have noticed a beautiful young lady sitting on her foot (I do this ALL the time). Might look uncomfortable but it’s quite possible I was enjoying a foot massage if you know what I mean 😉 Or maybe you’ve seen me sitting on the very edge of my seat as if I’m ready to jump off of it, now you know there is a reason for that. But my FAVORITE time to touch myself is while my partner watches and then joins in. If this sounds like fun then leave a comment and tell me what you think or better yet call the office and book an appointment 😉
PS. Sitting like I do in the picture helps me concentrate when I write (wink wink)
Attachments:December 12, 2013 at 2:03 pm #6204Jeremy LemurParticipant
Jeez…Now whenever I see a woman sitting on her foot I’m going to think of this post…December 12, 2013 at 4:58 pm #6205NewdudeParticipant
That is really something. I don’t know, for guys to me it seems we only have one way of doing such things. lolDecember 18, 2013 at 2:16 pm #6265
Jeremy: I’m glad to hear I’ve helped pervert your thoughts just a little bit 🙂
December 18, 2013 at 2:18 pm #6266
- This reply was modified 6 years, 6 months ago by Eva M.
Newdude: It depends on what you mean by “way” of doing it. I’m actually familiar with many different “ways” of doing it. If you’re use to only doing it at night in the privacy of your room you could try doing it during a morning shower or outdoors on a road trip or camping (some of my favorite).
Adding a little massage oil or lube can make it a interesting and very enjoyable. You can focus on running your fingers along the length of your body and not just your goodies. When you’re so turned on by what is going on (as you should be since it’s completely normal and sexy) you get to take charge, so to speak, and grab your man meat to have fun.
Varying grip, strokes, pressure and your hands are all great ways of trying different “ways” of self satisfaction. Or maybe rather than gripping yourself, try using both hands and gently rub them together so that you can feel it getting warm without starting a fire.December 20, 2013 at 1:55 pm #6320CandyAndyParticipant
Great trend! Probably within the last year or two I’ve learned that it is quite common for women to masturbate, as well. Learning that has made me feel so much better about myself when I do it. Also, I think its good advice to Newdude (and to other men) of finding different ways to explore ourselves. One thing I’ve decided to try is to ditch the porn and just lay on my bed with only my imagination to entice me. I’m also practicing running my hands all along my body before and after I climax (because it makes since that a climax should have something after it) to find out what else feels good.December 20, 2013 at 3:28 pm #6328
I had thought for a long time the there must be some variation in thoughts and/or mechanics to keep maturbation from becoming boring or worse not achieving a climax.January 3, 2014 at 2:05 pm #645688mmrrParticipant
Eve—-great blog and I think we should be able to talk more freely about masturbation. Its fun to do alone and is a great release of stress. Sex is great but solo is a different feeling and you only have to focus on yourself!!!.January 3, 2014 at 7:12 pm #6459Jazzmark007Participant
Self satisfaction? I’m all for it.February 26, 2014 at 7:33 pm #7171Gary44Participant
I have masturbated since I first found I could cum as a boy.
I am now over 65 and still enjoy it.
My last girl friend and I would spend an evening stretching out our time with on and off mutual masturbation.
I have found any number of ways for the pleasure this gives.
Shame? None here.
I look forward to a bit of mutual with you one of these days Eve…March 26, 2014 at 12:41 pm #7492audreyParticipant
I’m not a big fan of masturbation unless someone’s watching 😉April 11, 2014 at 4:26 pm #7805jason42Participant
Audry, Thank you for keeping this going. The subject is amazing, a little dirty, and very exciting. Been masturbating since I had my first wet dream. Enjoy it very much today. Never dull. Eva’s picture of her at the computer now complements my masturbatory fantasies.April 13, 2014 at 1:25 pm #7813Charina LeeParticipant
There’s one great way to truly know your body and that is to fantasize and to touch yourself in many different ways…..I enjoy answering e mails and touching myself at the same time!
Attachments:April 15, 2014 at 8:56 am #7827jason42Participant
Charina Lee, thank you for a beautiful post and picture. I bet you look sexy touching yourself while reading e-mails. A lovely woman pleasuring herself is a very sexy image to behold and to imagine while touching myself. I bet your return e-mails entice the sender to do the same. Thanks for sharing.April 15, 2014 at 3:16 pm #7829
Charina if you are playing with yourself while reading your Sheri’s mail, how does any corespondence get done?June 10, 2014 at 6:23 pm #8417launcelotdulacParticipant
…and then there’s always Lelo. 😉June 11, 2014 at 4:04 am #8423
maybe I will have to ask Charina of she is there on my next visit.June 11, 2014 at 5:24 pm #8442
CandyAndy I love that you try different things and allowing your imagination to get you excited instead of porn is a great way to challenge your sense and still have fun.June 11, 2014 at 5:26 pm #8443
Yes Launcelotdulac the Lelo is part of my self satisfaction repertoire. I also have a Lyla 2 that I need some help with if I can find a volunteer 🙂June 12, 2014 at 3:53 am #8461
Eva I do not know any of those devices. No doubt because I am male?
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