Have you ever fantasized about someone taking control of you in the bedroom? Possibly wondered what it would be like if your fantasy girlfriend unexpectedly slipped your hands into cuffs while she glided over you, seductively whispering into your ear, inviting you to engage in a titillating new sensual experience.
An intense experience may not be something you are comfortable with or ready for, but the concept of a strong and independent woman taking control in the bedroom could still excite and entice you. For those who enjoy the intimacy of GFE but still want to feel what it’s like to have a woman be in a dominant position, there is, what I bluntly call, the “kinky girlfriend experience.”
Vause is a licensed GFE courtesan at Sheri’s Ranch, a legal brothel near Las Vegas
Many people who lead busy lives, often playing the dominant role in their professions, enjoy having the roles reversed in the bedroom. Being a powerful person professionally or personally can lead to a yearning for someone else to give the orders once in a while. If you are “in charge” of high-demand areas in your life, at the end of the day, you may want someone else to take charge. You give orders and direct others on how to thrive, so allowing another person to take that control from you could alleviate some of the pressure you feel day to day. In this scenario, you follow instructions and give up the power you have, while I guide you through a safe and pleasurable adventure.
Vause possesses extensive kink and BDSM experience
Different aspects of BDSM appeal to different people. There is no “one size fits all” approach to kink. You may want to be tied up and teased, or maybe you want to try light impact play. Whatever appeals to you, let’s discuss it. Communication is key to any situation, really, and it is especially important when BDSM is involved.
We will go over what you are and are not okay with beforehand. This is important for any intimate relationship, sexual or not. You should always know your partner’s limits! Although we may not get into all the whips, electro play, and cages, it’s still important for me to know if there is anything you are definitely not okay with. For example, maybe you hate being blindfolded. I do enjoy using them (they’re great for teasing!), so it’s important for me to know. I also like knowing what you have specific interest in. Did you see 50 Shades of Gray and have curiosities about what a sexual power exchange may feel like? Have you been interested in BDSM-related activities but don’t feel comfortable asking your partner to try something new? Whatever your reason may be, seeing an experienced professional to assist you in fulfilling your fantasy is a great way to explore your kinks.
There is not a difference in the amount to which I care, listen and provide companionship when comparing “vanilla” GFE to kinky GFE. I still want you to feel cared for, whether I have you restrained, spread eagle on a bed or if we are chatting over dinner. The kinky girlfriend experience is about adding a little something extra, not changing the whole concept. The “something extra” is simply, a heightened power exchange as you allow your inhibitions to fade away. I may use cuffs, blindfolds, light impact play tools (like a paddle), feathers, ice and so on. Teasing is one of my favorite things to do in this scenario as it allows me to prolong your sexual pleasure and create a more intense climax. The feeling that comes from giving your control over to another person, allowing them render you motionless and visionless while they tease your body until you can barely contain yourself is being sold short when described as powerful.
“Nice Dommes” have been a topic of discussion online recently. This is a great way to look at this alternative version of GFE. I am nicely taking your power, and leading you in the bedroom, much like you lead others in your daily life. I may be tying you to a bedpost and giving you orders, but I will be doing so with kindness, consideration and a deep sense of care. I firmly believe that a Domme is more so defined by their attitude, experience and understanding. Rather than by “dressing the part,” being rude/aggressive or by simply having a dominating personality. It takes more than some clothes and an abrasive attitude to make a Domme. Someone wearing pink frills — but with authentic BDSM experience — will likely provide you with a more satisfying erotic adventure than someone who wears black leather and has the finest tools but doesn’t known how to use them.
With this in mind, I welcome you to come experience what it is like to surrender your control and submit to a caring, empathic Domme like myself. You deserve to let someone else take the reins for a while.