When people think about the perfect blowjob, they often assume it’s all about technique. After years working as a licensed courtesan, I’ve learned that what makes a blowjob truly memorable has just as much to do with enthusiasm, confidence, anticipation, and connection as it does with physical skill.
If you want to know a lot about penises, just ask a sex worker. Working at Sheri’s Ranch, I’ve seen more than I can even count. I’d say at least 1,000 is a conservative estimate. And guess what one of the most common services is? If you were thinking about blowjobs, you’d be right on the money!
Knowing how to perform oral is one of the most important skills in my tool chest. Fellatio is incredibly intimate and can be either foreplay or the main act. When it comes to giving head, I need it to be unforgettable – because that can be the difference between a client coming back to see me on the regular. When you’re not with me, I want you to be thinking about how wonderful it would be to have your hard, hot cock in my mouth. I want you dreaming of the feel of my lips wrapped around you, my tongue teasing you all while I suck you into the most amazing climax of your life.
But let’s talk about blowjobs. What separates the ordinary from the life-changing? What makes a blowjob something that you want to enjoy again and again? And why is a blowjob from a sex worker better than any other head you’ll get?
I’m Really Into Oral Sex
This is true for all sex, including blowjobs. Both participants need to want this oral sex to happen! For quite a few women, giving head is perceived as a chore or something they’re doing just to please their partner. And perhaps that’s why so many men end up coming to sex workers when they want to experience amazing fellatio! If you’ve ever been with a woman who finds oral sex demeaning or boring or something that’s only designed to give the receiver pleasure, you know what I’m talking about – that lack of enthusiasm is obvious.
But for me, I enjoy blowjobs. I love cock. I like stroking it, licking it, and sucking it. And the fact that you’re turned on because I’m the one who is giving you pleasure? The one who is going to bring you to a mind-blowing orgasm? That’s a real turn on for me. It makes me feel sexy, wanted, and powerful. I love giving head and trust me, when you get a blowjob from me, you can tell just how into it I am!
I Make Oral Last
Yeah, okay, like most women, I know how to get a man to cum quickly. But I don’t like to rush through blowjobs. It’s not as much fun for either of us this way! Good head is sensual and slow. I want to start by just barely touching my lips to your dick and letting my breath tease you. I want you to feel the barest flicker of my tongue as though pleasant tingles start to cause you to stiffen. I want you hard and hot. I want to start with just the head of your dick and slowly, so slowly, work my mouth down the length of you. Then comes sucking and bobbing. I’m not going to go too hard or too fast right out the gate. I want to take my time, give you little breaks in between, let you really need me. I want to see how hard and pulsing your cock is, I want to savor the look of my saliva running down your shaft. I want to tease your balls and watch as you get more and more into it. I want to delay your orgasm as long as possible so I can really enjoy how turned I’ve got you.
I’m going to be paying attention to how you respond while I’m sucking you off. There will be a moment when you’re ready and that’s when I’ll really get into sucking. I’ll take you deeper and deeper and I’ll bob on your cock, faster and faster, until finally you’re ready to explore. I want your orgasm to rock both our worlds and that’s something that takes time to get to.
It’s Not Just Touch That Matters
Blowjobs aren’t just about touch. It’s going to feel amazing when my lips are wrapped around your rigid member, yes. But I also want you looking at my tight body. I want you to see my eyes fixed on yours as I’m licking and sucking. I want you to watch my ass move in perfect rhythm with my mouth as I bob on your penis. I want you to hear me moan and gurgle in pleasure as you’re thrusting deep into my throat. I want you to taste me after, should you decide to return the favor, to lick up the sweetness between my thighs.
And a little psychology never hurts either. I know what you want – you want to feel like you’re the most important person in the room, like your cock is desired and wanted by me. I want this blowjob to be about more than a quick release – this is a way for me to show you how hot you are, and how much pleasure I get from your climax. There’s something incredibly powerful about having a sexy woman on her knees with your dick in her mouth, isn’t there? And it’s not just about submission – I’m a strong, confident woman and I love to beg for a taste of your dick.
The best blowjobs come when both parties are into it, taking their time, and making the entire experience sexy, safe and fun. I don’t think anyone gives head as well as a sex worker. So if you’re ready for the best blowjob of your life, you know who to talk to, right?