Check out which ladies are on schedule for the calendar dates you plan to visit- plenty of us cater to BDSM parties, so just read the ‘caters to’ list in her profile. One important thing I’d suggest is emailing or tweeting your intended courtesan ahead of time, in case she has certain toys she wants to bring with her on her trip here to play with you. (I know I don’t bring my whole toy chest every trip!) Furthermore, if you have any favorite toys of your own, make sure to bring them just in case! It’s also thoughtful to purchase new toys for a lady to use on you.
The most important thing, in the end: discuss it with her! 🙂