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I second everything CandyAndy said. I haven’t even been to Sheri’s yet (I’m planning my first visit this May), but just reading the ladies’ profiles, customer reviews, and these forums has given me a new, more healthy way to look at sex and romance as well as given me hope that I turn a frustrating, negative sex life into a fulfilling, healthy one.
So thank you to all the ladies at Sheri’s for making the world a brighter place.
I think that soap looks more like a fancy dessert than something to clean your body with. Or maybe I just have a subconscious association between vaginas and food . . .
ShyGuy, I have often felt the way you do and often wonder how women feel about it. Thanks for being brave enough to ask this question, because I’ve never been brave enough to ask a woman about it.
For me, I’ve decided that there is nothing wrong with wanting to have sex with a woman and fantasizing about it when looking at pictures of a woman. That is a normal human sex drive. What I think is really important is how you treat women, and how you treat women depends on how you think and feel about women deep inside.
I think it is bad for a man to treat a woman merely as an object to satisfy his needs without considering her feelings and needs. I am planning on making my first trip to Sheri’s this May. So, I haven’t actually been there yet, but from what I’ve read on this website, it sounds like the women at Sheri’s really do enjoy sex. So you are not a bad person for wanting to have sex with them, because I bet they will enjoy having sex with you IF you treat them well and act like a man who values and appreciates women. And I think that is what it really comes down to—do you really value and appreciate women in your heart?
For me, I recently realized that I am actually afraid of women. I am afraid that interacting with them will make me feel bad about myself and cause me emotional pain, because that is what has happened in the past. That fear can easily turn into anger and hatred towards women, because if you hate someone, then you are a lot less likely to let trust them and give them the chance to hurt you.
So, I have decided to focus on creating more self-esteem and self-worth inside of me, because I think having more self-worth will allow me to have positive experiences with women, and those positive experiences will create love and appreciation for women in my heart instead of fear and hatred. And that’s why I’m coming to Sheri’s! I believe that the ladies at Sheri’s are truly amazing women who really do care about their customers. I believe that they will treat me with acceptance and kindness and that interacting with them will be a positive experience that allows me to express the good qualities I value most about myself. And doing that will be a positive experience for the ladies at Sheri’s and it will also make me feel good about myself and help me value and appreciate women more, which will lead to more good experiences.
So, to answer your question, I don’t think you are an evil person. If you were evil, then you wouldn’t even be thinking about this or asking this question. Even if you have some negative feelings towards women like I do, it sounds like you really do want to treat women with respect, and I think that’s what counts.
Firefighter, thank you for your detailed explanation in this thread about the limo service and tipping. I’m planning my first trip to Sheri’s this May, and I’ve spent some time reading the newbie guides (thank you for those also, they are awesome), but I still had some questions, which you answered in this thread. I knew the limo service got a cut, but I wasn’t sure how much.
I was also wondering if a courtesan would have to split a cash tip with the house just like they do the normal negotiated party cost. I appreciate you sharing your own practice of gift cards or gifts instead of cash tips. That’s a great idea that I hadn’t thought of.
In general, thank you to everyone for being so supportive and helpful to someone new to the LPIN world. This whole community just seems so . . . awesome. Very accepting and kind. It means a lot to me.
Neighbors Know My Name by Trey Songz puts a smile on my face. It just feels smooth and sexy.
Addicted by Saving Abel makes me feel horny.
Feel Like Making Love by Bad Company just makes me feel . . . good. Kind of relaxed and manly and classy all at the same time. It makes me remember this one night in high school when I was driving around with friends and this song came on the radio.
Some others that come to mind because they are just such goddam good songs and have some lyrics I really like:
Brown Eyed Girl by Van Morrison: “Making love in the green grass behind the stadium with you.”
The Joker by The Steve Miller Band: “I really love your peaches, want to shake your tree.”
