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    rewith85man, I know I was over-charged as an ignorant newbie. I won’t say how much because it’s embarrassingly high. And I could say shame on Erin for doing that to a working-class guy who had to save up his money to blow all of it on a single party. It was a one-time deal that I will never regret, though. I really forgot about the money once that was out of the way. The time with Erin alone was as much constant sex as I could manage (or that she could manage out of me). So instead of “Shame on you,” I say “Thank you.” That girl is a dynamo. And adding Kitty Cat at the end was just mind-blowing. As I finally finished with Kitty, she said, “I thought you you said you couldn’t cum again.” I told her that she was so exciting that she coaxed it out of me.

    Enough, it’s great to relive. But seriously, it was worth it. I would even say, take what you can afford and try to negotiate better, but any closed deal with these two ladies is worth it.

    J Alan

    Your question is difficult to answer. I spent a good deal more than that and had an extremely memorable time. I don’t live anywhere near Vegas and don’t plan to be there too often, so I wanted something spectacular that turned out to be a few times your high end. But you will be able to enjoy yourself for what you call a comfort zone. Bring what you can spend.

    Increase your good time by not going on Friday or Saturday evening.

    J Alan

    Valentines Day

    • This reply was modified 7 years, 10 months ago by J Alan.
    J Alan

    I wanted to say, in follow-up, that I chose Erin purely on looks and curves. Erin was even hotter in person and it was a memory for the ages. Her fair skin and awesome breasts drove me to her. And I want to say that she introduced some stuff that has benefited my personal situation, trying harder at home to introduce more fun into my sex life. Thanks, Erin.

    But Erin chose Kitty Cat, not me. I avoided a black lady to start with, because the significant woman in my life is black, and I needed contrast. Erin would have no way of knowing this, but probably picked up in the bar that I had no problem talking to Kitty (or maybe Erin just loves Kitty licking her kitty…or both). So Erin would have no way of knowing that Kitty was very similar in looks to my lady’s best friend- who is almost as hot as Kitty Cat (I know, hard to believe).

    So now, I get to live with what it would be like to screw my lady’s best friend. I just hope I never say “Erin” or “Kitty” or [Her Best Friend’s Name] as I think about them when I am with my lady.

    J Alan

    Be sure to read their virgin blog at http://newblog.sherisranch.com/virgins/

    When you park, you will feel that the lot (right in front of the building) is in the middle of nowhere and anyone even lurking the lot would stand out and be afraid to hang around. Just do the commonsense thing and don’t leave out anything on the seat.

    J Alan

    I gotta say, this is an improper question. Are you asking for permission to put aside your Christianity, are you really interjecting how you wish to condemn those who visit a brothel, or are you trying to “save” some souls here?

    You are a free moral agent. You decide what you can and cannot do. Don’t let your preacher decide for you, nor any of us.

    If it helps, your Bible says that all people are sinners, prostitution is a sin, Jesus talked to prostitutes compassionately. Read Luke 7:36-50.

    J Alan

    Balderdash!!!! I tell you what. She will always remember you and that she was there for your special time. And your memory will be a long-term relationship. Virtually nobody stays with their first sexual partner, so true love with your first is a terrible long-shot to bet on.

    Get on with this. You will have a smile on your face for weeks. You will get over any feelings for the lady and just treasure her in your memory. (Besides, you can always call again in the near future.)

    There’s nothing more for us guys to say. Good times to you.

    J Alan

    Is it like a date night or something? How long does it last? If I were going to lose my virginity, I would want to have it be a meaningful night, I guess. I still want it to be special and significant, not just a temporary thing. So is the Girlfriend experience that?

    The GFE is like a date. She tries to anticipate what you would like her to be and tries to act as if she knows you and cares deeply about you. It will feel great, but you will have to come back to reality after it’s over. It will be special and significant, and I have a feeling it will be fairly short. I can’t tell you if you will afford an hour, less, more. But don’t get so hung up on feelings. I wish I had lost my virginity to a lady as hot as Erin, my party lady. Or a number of them there.
    You just may get attached to her. But I hope you remember that it’s just a fantasy and you will probably come out of your daze in a week or two, or even right away. There’s nothing wrong with falling for the lady in a way, but even normal outside relationships have rejection and pain and reality, so just roll with the punches and accept that she’s not going to actually come visit you. Go for the girl of your dreams and let that pain come later.
    If you don’t get over it, you can save up more money and visit. That would be great for me too, if I could visit the lady who took my virginity years ago. (Actually, I don’t know for a fact that I couldn’t find her.) Just know that there will be some pain and rejection somewhere in your life and don’t worry about it.

    Could it happen to me? Is it common to have that happen? I need to know.

    J Alan

    The Oft-Unmentioned Cure for Adult Virginity

    I had an encounter with Erin who contributed to this article. I am not a virgin, but was nervous for other reasons. She was great about picking up on that and relaxing me.
    If not Erin, I would have picked Destini, the other woman in this article based on her photo. Her comments, “All I know is that when a man leaves my bungalow after losing his virginity, he leaves with a smile from ear to ear.”

    Blog: http://newblog.sherisranch.com/legal-prostitution/losing-virginity/
    From blog: Over my years at a Nevada brothel I’ve had the honor of de-virginizing several men, both young and old. Why do men come to us to lose their v-card? Because we are professionals who can act as lover and teacher. We are neutral yet caring. We want you to love sex as much as we do, and we can show you how to do just that. –Char

    If you are looking for a black lady, I can vouch for Kitty Cat being a great confidence booster.

    J Alan

    If you look on this website, you can find a blog about losing virginity at the brothel. It’s a good article, and some ladies comment in the article and after in comments section. I can vouch for Erin being able to calm a man, make him feel good about his own ability. I have to think most any lady you pick would be similar. The article mentions how they are neutral, not judging, and how the virginity is more common than you think.

    • This reply was modified 7 years, 10 months ago by J Alan.
    J Alan

    Sex is not a bad thing. I could advise you to not worry about being a virgin, but from what I am reading, it is becoming a problem because you have no real confidence. I can tell you that a lady from Sheri’s Ranch, especially the one of your choosing, will be so hot and the fact that you bedded such a hot lady will give you much of that confidence.

    You can let a lady guide you. Ask questions directly to their profile page link. Many will take awhile to answer, but eventually they will. This forum doesn’t seem highly active, so you might not get answers here.

    1) Is the ranch a truly safe place? Are there like bodyguards or something protecting the place, so nothing bad would happen? Also, do the girls regularly get tested and practice safe sex?

    They get regularly tested and everything is safe sex. Condoms for everything and no exchange of bodily fluids. You won’t feel unsafe, although you might not see all the security since things are generally running smoothly.

    2) How would I know which girls are into sex with virgins?

    I imagine many many many of them are, and they will tell you. Just ask.

    3) Is there allowed time to have a conversation with a girl to build up rapport and chemistry? I don’t want to have it feel like I met a stranger. I want it to be with a girl I feel like I know and have communicated with, I guess. It doesn’t feel all too casual that way.

    You can have a conversation with ladies. If you choose a particular one and have an appointment, I don’t know how much time they would spend getting to know you, but you could ask. If you go without an appointment, you are free to hang out and speak with ladies. If you are as shy as you say, you may need to email a lady so that she will approach you. Tell her you will arrive prior to an appointment and would like to include time to talk. Really, that could be done in the private area too. I can’t tell you she will talk for free back there, but if you are bringing several hundred dollars, I bet you can work it out for some kind of getting to know a lady. These ladies are experts. They will put you at ease in minutes.

    4) Do I have to drink at the ranch? And do the girls drink? I don’t drink, and I’m not looking to have sex with a girl who is drunk or anything. It’s a personal thing.

    There are some that drink little and some that drink even less than that. They are experts and professionals, so I doubt you will wind up with a drunk lady. Go earlier in the day to be even more sure of that.

    5) I always envisioned having romantic music playing for my first time. Something soft and sensous, with some beautiful melody. Would there be any way to have some music playing in the room if I were to do this? I just want to know.

    I am sure that can be done. Bring some or ask them what they got.

    6) Will the girls tell you if you are doing a “good” job? And what if I end up “finishing” fast?

    You probably will “finish” fast, but you can go again. If you let the lady guide you, you won’t be doing a bad job. She will give you confidence and tell you to slow down or take it easier or whatever. Don’t take anything she says about that personally as she is trying to help, and enjoy her guidance. To be honest, no guys are really good at the beginning unless the lady does some guiding.

    7) Can I kiss? Is kissing allowed? I wonder because I would like to be kissed. I want to make it as romantic as possible, and not just about the act itself but everything up to it. Kissing feels like a big deal to me. So, I wonder if I am allowed to do any kissing. Is intimate touching and caressing something permitted too?

    I don’t speak for the ladies. But even though french kissing is not always the case because it is often saved for actual lovers, some ladies will agree to it. Even if she doesn’t, I bet you can ask her to kiss you (closed mouth) all over and make it feel romantic. Some won’t agree to open mouth kissing because it is exchanging bodily fluids and they want to be safe. Don’t take the french kissing part personally.

    8) Can you pick a girl to lose your virginity to? And can you talk to a girl before you actually get together? Is there any way you could talk to one of the girls before actually meeting to build that relationship up? Or is that forbidden?

    Pick a girl and ask if you can get to know her. Or get to know her through her posts here or elsewhere.

    9) Would it be an amazing experience losing my virginity? I want it to be special and amazing!
    Also, Would the girls be into me, even being a skinny guy? I mean, I have an athletic body, but I’m skinny. I just wonder if the girls would find me attractive or not.

    I promise that it will be an amazing experience with one of these ladies that you want to lose it with, she will be into you more than you even realize because she is helping you, teaching you, and because you are not a fatso like me. (But the lady was into me despite that.)

    10) Do you think this virgin experience will give me the confidence I have been looking for?

    It should help.

    I have years of experience, but almost all of it was with the same lady and I was nervous because the lady was so beautiful. A few minutes into it, she made me feel better. She was great at calming me.

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