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I love women’s breasts. I love all of women, and I love women’s breasts to be natural.
And I guess I should say I like smaller breasts. So getting surgery just to be bigger means nothing to me.
But kissing and rubbing my lips and eyes and nose on any breast, large or small, is wonderful. The breast is next to the heart of a woman, next to where her breath comes and goes. I love the feel of her pleasured breathing.
That’s why I like natural. I want what I’m feeling to be all her. All her real body, with an even, smooth texture everywhere I can see and feel.
I don’t like the idea that I’ll feel some artificial thickness or density or scarring.
Having said all that, if the augmentation process is so good that I don’t know the difference, then I suppose I don’t care!
Thank you for asking, Amber Lynn,
WillSelfishly, I am commenting again just to move my question to the top again. I’d love to hear women’s opinions, also.
Well, CynicalVirgin, I can’t imagine having all the frets of worrying about one’s first time having sex, and at the same time, having to worry about a penis that looks somehow ‘off’. It must be very scary and frustrating.
Learning how to be with a woman is difficult. Simply ‘punching your V Ticket’ helps, I guess, but doesn’t satisfy the need to be a social human being. Telling your lady “to shove her offer up her ass” probably wasn’t good practice learning to be with a woman. 🙂
These women are smart. They read the literature, they’ll know that there is this condition, and they will probably increasingly know what it might look like. They talk to medical professionals all the time.
You can maybe discuss some of this beforehand with some of the ladies via email. It doesn’t seem like a young man needs to commit his whole life to silicon dolls.Hi Allissa,
Hi Newbie,Allissa, this is a great thing you’ve written. My response repeats what you have said, in different words. I have been to Shari’s only once, but I have experienced this other times with some strippers. Spending time with a woman who is happy with her sex, obviously enjoys what she is doing, and obviously enjoys my lust and my body, makes me feel more confident and honest and trusting with all women. All women in all non-sexual contexts, too, I mean. I guess I carry that guilt of believing that “men all want one thing” and that women are somehow always a bit of a victim. I know it’s not true, but that guilt is there. Being with someone like you, is a reminder that the next woman I talk to has her body, her feelings, her life, and her strength, and that none of that is dependent on me.
Newbie, I have unsolicited advice for you. (And in fact, I’m probably writing most of this for myself.) I’m sure you’d prefer Allissa rather than me to respond; I bet she will soon.
You did not rant. You sound scared and hurt. Here’s what you should do.
Come visit Shari’s. I’m overwhelmed to read so many comments from virgins and hurt men here. For these guys, places like this are truly doing good!
Before you come:
Look in the mirror and remember that you are one of a kind. Handsome or ugly or disfigured, you are still you, and have immense worth. I don’t know what good you have done in the world, but you have done some, and all of that is there in your face and body. (I think women can see this sort of worth better than men….)
Get a professional haircut in a salon from a woman attractive to you. Accept her advice if she has any. Shave. Trim your pubic hair.
Buy new underwear.
Go to a real men’s store and buy new slacks and a dress shirt.
Get a few thousand dollars. They can’t talk prices, but I’m pretty sure a few hundred dollars are not going get you what you need and deserve.
Call Shari’s and reserve one of their $75 rooms. Plan on staying a day.
Go.
Walk in the bar and immediately talk to the hostess and tell her you’re hanging out for a while, you’re going to find a lady, and that you intend to have a wonderful 24 hours. Admit you’re scared out of your wits, but don’t whine or dwell. Laugh with her! She’ll advise you. She’ll probably help you get your room. She may suggest sitting down and talking to different women.
Do you drink, Newbie? If you are a responsible drinker, have one now. (Do not drink more than a little!!!) Offer to buy a drink for every woman that you sit with.
When I went, it felt good to have the room available. As I walked to get it, as I came and went, I could pass by women and smile, I could walk through the line-up area, I could walk past the pool, I could feel at home a bit. It all helps relax one.
The women. I talked to at least five women more than a little. They were real people, with different styles, looks, ways of talking. It felt so good to talk, to joke, and to look, and then to know that all I’d have to say is, please I’d love to talk more in your room, and to know that we could go be alone and touch and have sex. I trusted everyone I met, that they would be 100% accepting and supportive. They are regular normal women, except that they have sex like this normally and are used to guys like us, and except that they are all really attractive. The women you talk to will want to relax you and teach you about how women and men can be with each other. The woman you will be with will absolutely have as good of a time as you do.
WillAnd here’s another Huffpost article with very pretty pictures.
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/12/09/plush-marilyn-minter_n_6290050.htmlWTF,
It’s not a compelling reason; I think it is just a style to be shaven. I bet that the driving reason for this style is porn. Porn is sort of unregulated by real people; normal people don’t admit they have any interest in it, so styles go to extremes so the producers make money. And I think completely shaved is popular in porn cuz it’s more graphic.
Here’s a silly little survey from Huffpost that says shaven isn’t 100% preferred by us ‘normal’ guys.
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2015/06/10/women-pubic-hair_n_7544288.html
Will7I have written another review for Suzanne. I think I wrote similar things to what I wrote in the first one, which I guess is lost.
Tatyana and Suzanne…. Sigh, lucky me.Well yes, Olivia, if a lady is sexy, the clothes do not matter so much. The sexyness comes from the friendliness, the smile, the inviting open conversation. I enjoyed being in the bar and seeing a variety of clothing: the classy dresses, and the night I was there one woman had very pretty bra and panties, that was all and that was very nice.
To answer your question, though, I think in addition, it would be wonderful to see not specifically sexy casual outfits, too. Jeans and a nice shirt, or even a pretty cotton dress. Having been a girl watcher all my long life, most of my ogling has been of women in their nice, but day to day clothes! Maybe this idea is a sort of ‘costume’.
WillI had thought that my hint about high heels would make it clear. 🙂
Flint, I had an appointment with Tatyana soon after I got there. Later, I talked more with Suzanne, went to her room with her. My review of her has not posted yet.
I wrote a non-‘party’ review for Izabella; she made me laugh and I’m sure she would be great to be with more; that has not posted, maybe because there was no actual party.
Akira, I watched for you, and generally had a good time matching the women to their profiles. But I did not see you. Next time!
WillI’ve written reviews for the two women I spent time with. What great memories!
I wish I could have been with more, but I also wish I had only been with one, so the the memories would be sharper.
One always wants more!
Thanks, Shari, whoever you are.Thanks, Flint.
For some strange reason, I am reluctant to say who I was with. Gentlemen don’t tell. But here are some hints:
She sometimes wears high heels.
She has blogged about looking nondescript in work clothes and a ponytail in her other life.
I’ll write a review.By the way, I left Sheri’s late, after midnight, sober certainly, but my thoughts were not on driving. I was stopped by police for going 55 when the limit changed to 35 in Pahrump. The guy was great and only gave me a warning, but for sure, I was not focused. My mind was on Shari….
And Suzanne, I think, was concerned that I had a long drive through the desert. She was right; it was a s–t drive. But it was all good in the end.
WillSo…. a follow up….
I came to Sheri’s, and Char and Suzanne were by the door, and we talked a bit, and that was a start of a delightful visit. I did not get to drink a glass of wine with Char, but my visit was otherwise full. I did get to hear the click of high heels in the hall. They were Tatyana’s heels, and that was almost the high point of my time there.
As many people have commented, Shari’s is welcoming, interesting, and relaxing, and sexy, and a bit silly at times.
It IS a hundred times better than a gentleman’s club. To talk and flirt with neat women, but then to say, “Let’s go back to the rooms.” is just mind boggling fun. I got to spend time with my special appointment, and I got to hang out in the bar and relax, but I did not ask for a lineup. 🙂 For me, that was not even necessary; it was fun to imagine, but so less satisfying than actually talking to the girls and learning a bit about them. Thank you so for the fun in the bar, Suzanne, Char, AJ, Angel, Pretty, Riley, Destiny, and especially Izzy.
WillPS I wonder how it worked out for Curiously Anxious last week?
KandyAndy and Kellie have written good answers. AnxiousAnxiety, I agree with them that the religious rules that sex has to be just one thing are shallow and wrong. Many of the women here say that what they do is sometimes like couseling, helping men and women get over some of their bad experiences. I can’t be sure a brothel experience would be the first, best thing for you, but you definitely deserve to talk a lot with non judgemental (probably not fundamentalist religious) people about your history. Everyone deserves to enjoy their life, with sex included!
Yes, perhaps not the prettiest face, Tatyana. But you obviously have lots of personality!! And I’m sure your Teddy enjoyed his time with you much! I think your filthy photos are a hit!
WillThanks, Flint, and special thanks, Tatyana. ‘Exquisite anticipation’ describes it very well. I’m set up for it; I hear high heels clipping in my dreams!
WillWow, the second video is amazing. I thought I knew something about massage and sex, but I did not know this was possible. I would love to hear what you women think about this. I know that you all are very wise about the possibilities of sex. The guy did say that what he did was a culmination of weeks of massage, of sensuality training. I was uncomfortable with the girl being so young and not seeming to speak English, and with him being so paternalistic. But boy, she sure was happy!!
WillA woman walking up from behind, and softly taking my arm and allowing her breast to press into it.
WillI have been reading this forum and have enjoyed it much. I look forward to a visit!
But this mention of a female condom is completely new information to me and has been a total turn-on. I read the links from Charina, and have now read more on the web. These condoms sound great fun. I imagine helping my lady insert it; I imagine the look and feel of it for us both; I even imagine the crackly sound and feel of the first versions (on the web, it’s mentioned as a turn-off for some first users, and a turn-on in some Asian cultures). I’m very excited to learn of a new toy, a toy that makes sex more safe, too!
Thanks Sheri’s Forum!
Will
