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If you haven’t done so, Dan; Read my guide to Newbies. It will fill in a lot of the blanks I should think.
Flint,
You’re never required to make a selection, but some brothels do greet a client with a line-up when he enters the door whether he asks for it or not.
Dex
I’ve not tipped a girl on a failed negotiation…I HAVE and you SHOULD, however, tip a girl that gave you a tour of the joint if it’s your first time getting a tour…OR…if she’s showing you new amenities since the last time you were on property. Tour gets tip.
So far as the premature thing….
I’ve never heard of girls doing this, but I don’t see why they wouldn’t if it was truly an issue for you. Another option: Two-cum-party….or a girl that books by time and not activity. That way you can just give it another go if you go to quick.
Dex
Here’s the straight dope…..
I normally like to just set the pace by explaining right from the start that I’m a working class stiff that doesn’t have a million dollars to spend. I don’t say it like that, of course, but by putting out my budget and asking if and what I can get with that kind of budget I can get past the initial ‘sticker shock’ nonsense…which is usually the part that guys talk about being uncomfortable. Now, keep in mind that this assumes you are EDUCATED prior to arrival and understand what a reasonable going rate is for ‘pay for play.’ Also know that there are girls on either side of that ‘reasonable rate’ depending on the house, the girl, how business has been, and about a million other things.
I’ve been doing this for almost 14 years now….
Most of the time, my tried and true method has resulted in either a “Oh we can have plenty of fun for that…” Or “Well….I could probably do something like this for that amount…but it wouldn’t be for very long.” as a starting point.
On a handful of occasions….probably like…3 maybe? I’ve had women just simply balk at the offer. For whatever reason this has always been with someone that REALLY leaned on me to walk back with her and that I only half wanted to talk to about a party. Whether or not that has any impact on the result, I don’t know…but I say it because it goes to my tried and true method of seeing who you ‘click’ with – regardless if they were on your radar – before asking if they’d like to have fun.
Dex
I’ve known several guys that have negotiated for a party to take place the following day…especially when it requires the coordination of another girl’s schedule or special arrangements/outfits or whatever…I’m sure you will be good to do that, dude.,
Dex
My very first trip I thought I had it all figured out who I would part with and had been talking to girls online for nine months prior to the trip….
Didn’t party with any of the top three that I thought I would.
‘In Person’ is just a HUGE difference.
Upon further reflection I think another important point to make here with respect to avoiding disappointment, and I’m sure my main man Stripe will back me up, is this:
Don’t ‘marry’ your choice before you get there.
Some dudes walk in with this iron clad idea that they are going to party with X girl and it’s going to go X way and they’ve never even spoken to her in person. You might sit down with a girl and realize you have no chemistry…or realize that she may not be down for what you are looking for. If you get those warning signs, don’t go full-bore ahead just because this was the plan from the onset. Know enough to put on the breaks and re-assess where you are going.
Dex
PS – Blithe, you’re hot.
To add just a bit to what Flint said;
Because each lady has her own set of rules, make sure to be VERY CLEAR on what you are looking for to avoid confusion. So, for instance, if kissing with tongue is what you want, don’t just say ‘kissing’ or there might be some miscommunication.
Dex
After visiting Sheri’s for all these years I can say that I’ve seen all kinds of dudes with all kinds of fetishes come in. Never once did I see negative reactions…the ladies, staff, and management is all about you feeling comfortable and I’ve never seen ANYBODY, regardless of how elaborate their fantasies were (and trust me, there have been some REALLY elaborate ones) made to feel like they didn’t belong there. In fact, I don’t even think I’ve ever seen other customers raise an eyebrow. It’s a sex positive environment, you have nothing to worry about.
…and if we’re being honest; Diapers are actually a rather common fetish, I’m sure most of the ladies have at least been approached by it once.
Dex
Over the 14 years I’ve been doing this I’ve heard of it happening a handful of times. In most instances, it doesn’t go beyond a bit of ‘buyer’s remorse’ with respect to how much a dude spent. I can think of a couple of more infamous times where it had a great deal to do with the customer not doing his due diligence prior to his visit and a lady that was more than willing to do her job and get the most money she could out of the customer. I, personally, had one where – to put it bluntly – the lady in question wasn’t that good at her job! Did I complain and go stark raving nuts over it? No. In fact, I think this is the first time I’ve ever posted something about it. Shit happens, people.
Bottom line here is this; if you want to avoid a bad outcome remember the six “P’s:”
Prior Planning Prevents Piss Poor Performance.-Research before going
-Know your budget and stick to it
-Be willing to walk someone (yes, you read that right. Remember: you have just as much right to end the negotiation and walk her as she does to walk you.)
-Take ample time to get to know the girl.
-Be thorough in explaining what you want.
-HAVE FUN.Oh…and point of fact…that bad party I had was one where I didn’t take my own advice.
Dex
I really think it depends on the girl. Some of the ladies look just as good with no make-up as they do with it.
I could never figure out Twitter….I stuck with Facebook. I’m always curious why they don’t call it ‘Twitting,’ but rather tweeting.
Welcome back, Brianna…
I remember the night vividly that Lilly and I kept you awake for hours on end. Good times!
Dex
Glad it’s still working out for folks…..
I’m still planning to update this thing. I have it partially complete, actually.
It seems some input from me, everyone’s infamous “Brothel Champion” is needed here:
I’ve been visiting brothels in Nevada for going on 13 years now. So I feel comfortable saying a few details about how this whole ‘terrifying’ (I use that word glibly) works and what it costs. Here’s the low-down gents:
1. Each brothel has a ‘house minimum’ that is somewhere in the low hundreds of dollars. NOTHING can be obtained for less than house minimum…and about all you are going to get for right at house minimum is a cup of coffee and a rather vigorous hug. In short, don’t be a doofus and bring a C-note with you and think you are getting anything. This isn’t some ‘lot lizard’ at your local truck stop.
2. NOTHING IS FREE in this world. That said, drive yourself to the house if possible. Don’t take a cab. Don’t take a limo. That’s all I’m going to say about that.
3. Now…as to the ‘meat and potatoes’ of this whole thing: Prices range wildly at a brothel. As a rule, assume that the more you ask for the more expensive the price. The dude wanting to dress like Elvis while she dresses as Minnie Mouse and rams him in the ass with a copper pipe is likely to pay more than the dude just looking to get a little BJ.
4. If you are an average dude of average means – YOU CAN party at a brothel and enjoy yourself. Stripe and I have been doing it for years and neither of us is independently wealthy. We save for our trips, we go out, we have a good time. If you are looking for your basic party, you can usually find that somewhere in the mid to high $$$ depending on the girl. If she’s really popular, or if the place is packed and she has a choice of clients, that price might go a little higher that night in to the low $$$$. It’s a stone cold reality that YOU have a major impact on that price also. Your appearance, hygiene, attitude, and personality will ALL contribute to what you get quoted. Let me clear that, when I say ‘appearance,’ I don’t necessarily mean that ‘hot guys’ have an advantage. If you’re a good looking guy whole freely advertises that ‘I don’t need to pay for it, ya know.’ I’ll all but guarantee you that guy gets a ‘douchebag tax’ added to his price.
5. If you want to maximize your brothel dollar; follow these simple rules:
– Show up freshly showered and dressed in clean clothes. Do NOT think that Axe body spray is a substitute for a shower. Cleanliness is next to Godliness. It’s called soap…use it…AND the washcloth. Get intimate with a razor. Manscape. Brush your teeth. If you have facial hair, corral that shit appropriately. A little dusting of cologne can’t hurt, but don’t bathe in it. Rule of thumb; if you catch more than a passing hint of your own cologne throughout the day, you are wearing too much.– Be NICE. Introduce yourself. If you are talking to her for any length of time, buy her a drink. If she’s a smoker, light her cigarette for her. Be a gentleman. In short, be the dude she’d want to sleep with even if she wasn’t working.
– Be HONEST. If you don’t have a fortune to spend, that’s fine. Tell her what you have to work with and what you would like. If she is unwilling or unable to do that – it’s okay. Nothing ventured, nothing gained. So long as you aren’t doing anything bone-headed…or aren’t so far off the mark with what you offering, chances are she’s going to tell you what she CAN do for that price…or suggest that for a bit more she could give you what you are looking for.
– Continue to be NICE. Even if things don’t work out….stay nice throughout the whole process. Each girl has her own set of prices. For THAT girl on THAT night at THAT time on THAT trip…she might have said no. BUT…you were an okay dude the whole time and what you offered wasn’t bad…and she knows three girls who haven’t partied in three days who she could send your way and would be happy to meet your price. If you were nice, she will.
My Guide to Newbies has more details…but this is the basics of it guys. Now GO GET YOURSELF SOME!
Dex