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  • #21098
    Iris Sparks
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    I haven’t done blankets- living in Alaska, even in the summer I’m usually wearing or at least carrying a coat! A nice jacket with a gore-tex shell laid out works great, especially if it’s damp out.

    That being said I’d be fibbing if I claimed never to have found bits of forest in odd places. So perhaps the blanket is a wise choice! (Though less sneaky!)

    #21094
    Iris Sparks
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    I enjoy this fetish; I’ll be here through Monday March 19th. 😉

    #21093
    Iris Sparks
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    I don’t see why it has to be in a seat. I don’t think it gets any more ‘public’ than among the trees in a park! But then, there are a lot of small local woods where I live. IMHO, all of those count.

    #21092
    Iris Sparks
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    Check out which ladies are on schedule for the calendar dates you plan to visit- plenty of us cater to BDSM parties, so just read the ‘caters to’ list in her profile. One important thing I’d suggest is emailing or tweeting your intended courtesan ahead of time, in case she has certain toys she wants to bring with her on her trip here to play with you. (I know I don’t bring my whole toy chest every trip!) Furthermore, if you have any favorite toys of your own, make sure to bring them just in case! It’s also thoughtful to purchase new toys for a lady to use on you.

    The most important thing, in the end: discuss it with her! 🙂

    #20440
    Iris Sparks
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    Four of them I have no idea, but here’s my guess on the others. From left to right: Olivia, Havana Honey, Izzy, ???, Emma, ???, Red, ???, Alex, ???.

    #20439
    Iris Sparks
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    Hi Gordon, if you click the ‘ladies’ tab here on the website, the drop down menu will give you the option to ‘search ladies by date’ to take a peek at who is currently scheduled to be there at that time. 🙂

    #20437
    Iris Sparks
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    Yes. If I hadn’t gone with a local fetish group for us to inform ourselves on how we’re being depicted in pop media lately and what misinformation we would soon be dealing with from the curious but confused, it wouldn’t have been worth watching. Of course, a nice group of friends privately elbow nudging each other can make most insufferable films entertaining.

    I thought it was terrible, though there was so much sex in the second film that there was less of the agitating plot, which made it better than part one. I love kink, and in a way am thankful that films like this help bring kink into the mainstream- but their relationship is mutually abusive and deplorable. Those in the BDSM community are left to mop up. 😛

    #20154
    Iris Sparks
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    Montana, you know I would!

    #20136
    Iris Sparks
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    I love my vaporizer. I’m pretty sure Cassie uses one, too. I really doubt you’ll have trouble finding a ‘real’ smoker, I’ve only been here a few times, but there was never a time where there weren’t a few ladies on shift who ‘smoked for real’. 😉

    #20135
    Iris Sparks
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    We don’t have any gentlemen for hire here, your best bet would be to bring one (I know that wasn’t what you were looking for, but alas) and to seek a lady who will work with both of you.

    #20134
    Iris Sparks
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    When getting to know her at first, if you want to chat casually in the bar, you could be there to translate. I’ve done that with guys from China. When it comes to negotiating, a lady is required to have a second in her room if there are to be two men there, for security reasons. It’s also acceptable to write things down- or as Flint suggested, email the lady a bit and you can help your friend with what he wants to communicate that way. I’ve also had a French man who used a translation app for questions he wasn’t sure how to ask in English.

    #20133
    Iris Sparks
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    A couple of things. DATY may be referring to the lady being available for giving oral sex to other women… What it means, giving or receiving, can be different depending on the lady. If a lady has ‘face sitting’ available but not DATY, or vice versa, it could just mean she didn’t include *both* terms when writing down her available activities. When we set up our profiles at the ranch, we write down (on paper) what we’re available for and it gets transferred to the website by admin. She may simply not have included various terms for similar activities when writing her list down.

    In the end, it’s best to simply write an email to a lady whose pictures/profile turn you on and ask her individually. 🙂

    #20132
    Iris Sparks
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    I highly encourage the use of latex dental dams for oral sex; cling film is more porous. When it comes to safety, you wouldn’t need to use a condom with your wife but it would be required for the courtesan- if your courtesan can use a female condom it simplifies the matter of needing to change condoms when swapping between women, (putting one on for the courtesan, taking it off for your wife, putting a fresh one on for the courtesan again, etc) since the courtesan will be the one wearing her own internal condom. Similar to a condom, latex dental dams should not be swapped between partners as it defeats the purpose.

    If using toys, the toy would need to have a condom put on it and be changed when switching between women. Some of the ladies bring their own toys, but not all of them do. (On this trip, for example, I forgot my hitachi magic wand!) If there’s a toy you’re into, it’s best to bring it. The question on filming I’m not sure about.

    Hope that helps!

    #20131
    Iris Sparks
    Participant

    Thanks, Ken! I’ll be here at the ranch through January 23rd- my schedule’s been updated on the website.

    #20128
    Iris Sparks
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    Here’s one example. The penetrative partner need not be completely doubled over the receiver; if the giver can manage on their knees I like that better, with my own legs vertical versus at an angle. It’s typically easier on them and we can develop rhythm better, (it becomes less like they’re having to do pushups- bleh) plus I can put my feet down and it still works. One leg up is great too. Either way I can touch their chest and see the action. I like this position whether I’m giving or receiving, it’s so easy to control speed! I also like being on my stomach; gets my g-spot every time!

    #19816
    Iris Sparks
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    That’s hot. We typically have enough ladies that a number of them are smokers. I was a moderate smoker for a long time and have since switched to using a vaporizer. Once in a while (and for special occasions such as fetish scenes) I still smoke cigarettes. A couple of my favorite smoke-fetish activities are forced inhalation (via gas mask or hood with a hole) and human ashtray. That tiny flash of heat from flicking the ash rarely leaves a mark but it sure can make you jump! You could probably ask the hostess or front desk who in the weekly lineup smokes, too. Or visit the bar and ask the ladies in person, use your peepers and follow the plumes! 😉

    #19407
    Iris Sparks
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    As much hilarity as I got out of the 60’s movie, I did not go back and binge the TV show; the camp was just a teeny bit too high for me. I’ve gotten into the comics, 80’s and post 80’s, where they brought back the grittiness of the Batman(that was apparently promised in the 40’s and mostly removed in the 50’s).

    #19401
    Iris Sparks
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    In the time since this post was made: nananananananana-nananananananana BATMAN! ❤

    #19296
    Iris Sparks
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    Awh, it looks like I’ll miss this, my shift doesn’t start until Nov 1st. :<

    #19276
    Iris Sparks
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    If you’re concerned about sounding crass but aren’t sure how to explain yourself otherwise, you can always just tell your courtesan this; I’m sure she’ll appreciate the gesture and ease your hesitation. One persons naughty could be someone else’s ‘well behaved’, after all- and hey, we’re courtesans. We’re here to fulfill fantasies, not judge the way you word them. A kind and straightforward manner will serve you both well.

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